GIVING VIT is hard enough... but how about receiving it? What happens when your parts don't know how to accept...
Posts in Category "Git Educated | Intermediate"
10.35 VIT: Shelby and Emotional Intelligence > Cognitive Controlling in Relationship | MFs Speak!
Today let's hear from Shelby, in a most excellent rundown of the importance of emotional intelligence, internal...
10.32 Projection, unfulfilled needs, abuse, and self-fulfilling prophecies | YOUR parts in Relationship Pt II
What challenges come up in relationship when we're not attending to our own inner worlds? Talking about conscious and...
10.31 Disorganized attachment through IFS | YOUR Parts in Relationship Pt I
We want what we fear most: relationships. Now let's look at the problem from an IFS viewpoint. How do your parts fuck...
Community Discussion! Are relationships on your to-do list, or has isolation been too relieving?
There's a time for going solo AND many benefits to connecting with others... So where do you land these days? Let's...
10.29 VIT & the Workplace. Back to work after 1 year of med leave with Incanthatus | MFs Speak!
Ever found yourself in a position of revealing your mental health struggles with coworkers, bosses, and red-taping...
VIT: When the perp is your savior by Leanne | MFs Speak!
We all probably realized it: our VIT issues generally start with the FOO (family of origin). But can you remember the...
Video short from the community! VIT issues, summarized in a few seconds
Just wanted to share this submission from AL on the recent vulnerability/intimacy/trust poll! It had me rolling. This is the ~MF life~
Community discussion! How do YOU feel about close, connective relationships?
We've been talking about relationships from a semi-avoidant perspective... but where have YOU settled with your...
10.27 Re-examining and rebuilding relationships influenced by parental patterns with Black, Inca, and Misa | MFs Speak!
Let's talk about relationship revelations, reconnections, and rebuilds. Especially, as they relate to direct and...
10.25 VIT Pt III – “Ah hell no” – Learned Obstacles to Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Trust in Relationships
Why don't we sign up for close connections anymore? Let's use this extra weekend in April to talk about it from an...
BONUS Video! Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Trust – the issues and the healing measures
Time to dood down. Let's look at some illustrated points from the research we've done this month! What are our...
BONUS Workbook! Vulnerability, Intimacy, Trust| Bases of Post-traumatic Growth
Here's yer workbook for pt II of the VIT conversation! Research excerpts and main points, illustrative doodles, and...
10.24 Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Trust pt II – Fostering relational personality traits
So, we've heard a lot of the trauma-hangups around intimate relationships... now how do we work to rewire those...
Repost! Stress-based Illnesses
Hey my Fuckers! This month in the Discord server we're talking about a past episode from January 2021 - Stress Based...
A big Q about the values of TMFR members
Hey high-tier Muffs! Thanks for being such a big part of this project. You're keeping it alive with your support and...