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TRANSFERENCE VIDEO!
Been working on an all new experience for you, including animated videos! Let's talk about Transference in the highest...
Transcript | Emotional Transference, Displacement, Projection, Monkey-barring
Hey Fuckers! I’m going to talk at you for a minute before we get into the episode. Because I feel like we need to...
Emotional Transference, Displacement, Projection, and Monkey-barring
"You should do an episode on Transference," one of y'all said. I resisted, until "Displacement" became a point of...
AMA “Which emotions correlate with which of my needs?”
You Q'd I A'd. Let's talk about Transference (Classic) and the other forms (Projection, Monkey-barring,...
Gratitude; a t-loaded word | Spanksgiving Special 2023
What happens when "gratitude" loses all meaning? Or even, acquires negative meaning? Let's talk about why this holiday...
Self-abandonment vs your best Spanksgiving | Surprise Spanksgiving Special
Let's cut the brainy shit, the real answer to surviving the holidays is not abandoning yourself.
“Thanksgetting” what you need | Spanksgiving special
Here we go! Let's rundown the ways to take care of ourselves (and maybe some need-deprived others) this holiday. ...
Revitalized Discussion Fawning X Unmet Needs
In 2021 the word of the year was Fawning. Today, let's revisit those discussions while layering on our...
BONUS: MY tips for t-communicating
What can this Fucker say about communicating on t-brains? Got plenty of lessons in reactivity to share. And yes, turns...
10b. How-TO Prepare to Respond Effectively
Responding to vulnerable disclosures can be as hard as issuing them. Let's talk about how to set yourself up for...
10a. Rationale: How-TO Respond Effectively
Wonky episode format and scheduling coming up! But here's why. Let's get into discussing the "How-TOs" of responding,...
11. How-TO Respond Effectively
What are the steps to effective responding that take massive pressure off your every word? Let’s talk about the keys...
AMA! “What IS my bullshit?”
Got back from a windy hike this morning and decided to answer an email via video for you Fuckers. Lez talk about...
9. DAMAGING Responses to Vulnerable Conversation: Examples 6-10
Back to it! Here are the next 5 ways we commonly respond to others which shuts down discussion, fosters...
Transcript 8. DAMAGING Responses to Vulnerable Conversation: Examples 1-5
Hey Fuckers! We’re here, to get back into the communication aspects of NVC. We’ve been on a bit of a journey...