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7. Self-sabotage and psychosomatic illness V. your SUBC shittery | Important Workbook!
Notes: We have rigid rules about what needs are "allowed" for us in normal circumstances. Those rules often create...
Clarification! Conscious vs Subconscious Need Fulfillling Behaviors
Just a quick point to drive home several times over. No, you're not CHOOSING self-destruction. Check "Nobody should...
7. Deprived Needs, the SUB-C, Self-sabotage and Psychosomatic Illness
So we love to deprive ourselves "for goodness" - but what happens when your subconscious has enough? Today, talking...
Mini BONUS | Self-abuse Words, NVC, and IFS
So we just finished looking at precise & accurate emotions... ARE there any instances in which "false, projected...
BONUS Breaking the spell of feeling “neglected, ignored, and rejected” – Naming your real feelings and needs
The title says it all? We learned that "projected, false, judgmental" emotional words are a big part of our...
6. “Secondary” Needs and Emotions; Chronic Self-Entrapment
How do we mask our needs from ourselves, fruitlessly dumping energy into areas of life that won't return any chemical...
6. “Secondary” Needs and Emotions; Chronic Self-Entrapment | Workbook+Video!
Eek. Talk about self-deprivation....... no, really, let's talk about self-deprivation, masquerading as "meeting our...
Video! NVC x Recovery x Behavioral Science
Let's break down "behavioral strings" and see what we can learn about deprivation, triggers, and emotional spirals....
5. The “Goodness” of Deprived Needs Workbook | NVC Continued
NOTES Depression is the reward we get for being good children. We're taught what needs we're allowed to pay attention...
5. The “Goodness” of Deprived Needs | NVC Continued
NonViolent Communication has more to tell us. Today, we're talking about "the reward we get for being 'good' -...
BONUS! NVC x IFS Conceptual Overlap
When does an unmet need become a "burden"? What does conflict signify? What's the answer to resolving interpersonal...
BONUS! NVC x IFS Conceptual Overlap
Hey y’all! Welcome to another bonus episode and thank you so much for supporting the project to this degree....
11.9.4. Rewiring yer Brain with NonViolent Communication | Video+Transcript
Notes:NonViolent Communication suggests our needs drive our emotions, which drive our perceptions.From that point, our...
11.9.4. Rewiring yer Brain with NonViolent Communication
Better communication? Great. A recovered t-brain from the same process? Now we're fckn talkin bud. Today, we're...
BONUS! Applied NVC Vignettes and Exercises
It's a full length Bonus episode! Let's cover additional examples / pointers from Rosenberg and run through 4...