Posts in Category "Subscriber Content"

Guilt vs Shame, vs the Ego. Or, “Why our relationships suck.”

Dec 23, 2023 | Subscriber Content, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Changing | Advanced, NonViolent Communication, Patron Season 11, Relationship Misc., Seasons, Series, Transcripts

OKAY MY MOTHA FUCKS. Months ago in August we spoke about the challenge of apologizing, for real, with the purpose of...

Gratitude II | Christmas Edition

Dec 23, 2023 | Subscriber Content, Filial Obligation and Entrapment, Git Changing | Advanced, Holiday Survival, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Transcripts

So around Tgiving we had a shorter episode release discussing the issues with “gratitude” after a long life of...

Abuse Acronyms: DARVO and SAPIEN

Dec 23, 2023 | Subscriber Content, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Changing | Advanced, Holiday Survival, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Transcripts

Helllooooo Fuckers! As part of our “rounding out reasons relationships wreck us” emphasis in 2023, and as a piece of...

Reflecting on your “cycles” in 2023

Dec 23, 2023 | Subscriber Content, Git Changing | Advanced, Holiday Survival, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Transcripts

Hey Fuckers. I’m just sitting here, eating some eggs, thinking about you all, the past, and the future… and felt...

HOLIDAY TIME: Gratitude II (a better attitude)

Dec 21, 2023 | Patron Season 11, Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Filial Obligation and Entrapment, Git Educated | Intermediate, Holiday Survival, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

There's plenty to be grateful for this holiday. If you spend time with family, it'll be right in front of your face....

Shame vs. Guilt

Dec 21, 2023 | Patron Season 11, Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Educated | Intermediate, NonViolent Communication, Seasons, Subscriber Content

What's the difference between shame and guilt? And how do they mandate relationship wreckage? As always, Idunno. But...

Abuse Acronyms to Know: DARVO & SAPIEN

Dec 15, 2023 | Patron Season 11, Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Holiday Survival, Relationship Misc., Seasons, Subscriber Content

Can't wrap a year on relationships without talking abuse tactics. Let's discuss DARVO and SAPIEN - strategies to be...

BONUS ED: Sex on CPTSD pt II

Dec 13, 2023 | Subscriber Content, Bonus Episodes, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 11, Relationship Misc., Seasons, Series, Transcripts

BONUS EDITION: Find extra content in this version. Well hello and welcome to a surprise show, for all of us. The world...

End of Year Extra: Your Cycles

Dec 13, 2023 | Patron Season 11, Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Holiday Survival, Seasons, Subscriber Content

A Fucker loves to "close out the year." Let's take a look at the cycles you've been through and identify important...

Sex on CPTSD pt II

Dec 13, 2023 | Patron Season 11, Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Relationship Misc., Seasons, Subscriber Content

The world didn't end after the last post and I have more to say. Let's talk about identifying if your sexual life is...

Sex, parts, programming, and needs

Dec 9, 2023 | Subscriber Content, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 11, Relationship Misc., Seasons, Series, Transcripts

So, Fuckers. We’re “wrapping up” relationships as we round out 2023.  Which isn't really true, because CPTSD is so...

Sex, parts, programming, and needs

Dec 8, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 11, Relationship Misc., Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

We've talked about intimacy... but not *intimacy.* Diving into sex, let's talk about childhood and adult programming...

TRANSFERENCE VIDEO!

Dec 4, 2023 | Patron Season 11, Bonus Video, Git Changing | Advanced, Relationship Misc., Seasons, Subscriber Content

Been working on an all new experience for you, including animated videos! Let's talk about Transference in the highest...

Transcript | Emotional Transference, Displacement, Projection, Monkey-barring

Dec 1, 2023 | Subscriber Content, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Transcripts

Hey Fuckers! I’m going to talk at you for a minute before we get into the episode. Because I feel like we need to...

Emotional Transference, Displacement, Projection, and Monkey-barring

Dec 1, 2023 | Patron Season 11, Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Relationship Misc., Seasons, Subscriber Content

"You should do an episode on Transference," one of y'all said. I resisted, until "Displacement" became a point of...

AMA “Which emotions correlate with which of my needs?”

Dec 1, 2023 | Patron Season 11, Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Seasons, Subscriber Content

You Q'd I A'd. Let's talk about Transference (Classic) and the other forms (Projection, Monkey-barring,...