In this deeply personal episode, we explore the complex emotions surrounding pet loss, family trauma, and the journey towards personal freedom. The speaker shares their experience of losing their beloved dog Archie to a severe neurological condition, while simultaneously breaking free from a toxic family environment. This raw and honest account highlights the challenges of setting boundaries with narcissistic family members and the transformative power of choosing one’s own path, even when it means embracing unconventional living arrangements. The episode offers insights into the healing process of trauma survivors and the importance of self-discovery in the face of adversity.
Posts in Category "Patron Season 05"
5.39 Rerelease | Archie As a Metaphor
Born "different." Overcoming challenges that "normal" species members don't even notice. Constantly falling on his...
5.38 “Expectations” supplement. Buy the right car in the first place.
Mushbrain makes words hard. Let's just rap for another minute or 20 about relationships, standards, expectations......
5.37 Shit Relationships Part I
So we allllll wonder, "Why do I end up with people who abuse me and relationships that sink me?" Answer: How long've...
✭ 5.36 Personal | Emotional Archie Update
In this deeply personal update, we explore the complex emotions surrounding a pet’s terminal illness and the difficult decisions that come with it. The speaker shares their experience of receiving devastating news about their dog Archie’s brain abnormalities and the subsequent struggle with end-of-life care decisions. This raw account highlights the transformative power of unconditional love, the importance of perspective in challenging times, and the potential for personal growth through grief. The episode also touches on the impact of toxic family environments and the need for self-care during emotionally taxing periods. Through this experience, we see how facing loss can lead to profound self-discovery and a reevaluation of life’s priorities.
5.35 Workbook | Find yer Trauma-Self
Who's ready to pinpoint their trauma-self narratives and start calling themselves out? Yeah, no one. I know. It's not...
✭✭ 5.33 Progress Halted: Your Trauma-Self
This episode explores the concept of the “trauma self” and its impact on recovery. We delve into how traumatic experiences can create rigid neural patterns that resist change, leading to fixed mindsets and avoidant behaviors. The discussion highlights the importance of recognizing these patterns in ourselves and others, particularly in relationships. By understanding the trauma self, we can begin to challenge our resistance to growth and develop more flexible, adaptive ways of thinking and behaving. While the journey is challenging, awareness and consistent effort can help us move beyond the limitations of our trauma-based neural networks.
5.32 Workbook | Fuck Fawning
Surprise! Normally these Exercise episodes live in the Recoverer and REAL MF tiers - but this one is available...
✭✭ 5.31 Full Extended Version | Fawning, Enmeshment, Relational Triggers (What is CPTSD, Alex)
This episode delves into the complex world of fawning, enmeshment, and relational trauma. We explore how early childhood experiences shape our tendency to prioritize others’ needs over our own, leading to codependent relationships and a loss of personal identity. The discussion highlights the importance of recognizing fawning behaviors, setting healthy boundaries, and developing autonomy in relationships. By understanding these patterns, individuals can begin to break free from people-pleasing tendencies and cultivate more balanced, fulfilling relationships. The journey towards recovery involves challenging deeply ingrained beliefs and behaviors, but it’s a crucial step in reclaiming one’s sense of self and improving overall mental health.
5.30 Supplement: What’s Fawning?
Before we dive into a loooong episode on enmeshment, codependency, boundaries, and the ways that we're brain-patterned...
5.29 Guest Host | Monsters in the Shadows
Who's ready to hear about some radical self-exploration and acceptance? This MF is an incredible example of noticing,...
5.28 Guest Post | Fawning & Social Triggers
Relational trauma has been a doozy lately, amiright? Yep, well wait until your new MF friend spits about her recent...
5.27 Workbook| YOU v. BRAIN Neural Network Reprogramming
Companion exercises to YOU v. BRAIN series. So you've got neural branches and limbs forming diverse networks in your...
✭✭✭ 5.26 Early Release! YOU v. BRAIN v. PROGRAMMING pt II
Understanding the intricate workings of neural networks can be a powerful tool in trauma recovery. This episode explores how our brains create and maintain neural connections, often leading to unhelpful thought patterns and responses. By visualizing these networks as branching trees, we can better comprehend how trauma affects our thinking and behavior. The concept of neural network overlaps and compartmentalization helps explain many common trauma symptoms. Recognizing the distinction between our conscious selves and our brain’s automatic programming allows for greater agency in healing. This perspective offers hope for rewiring trauma responses and creating healthier neural pathways.
✭✭✭ 5.25 YOU v. YER BRAIN
In trauma recovery, separating our sense of self from our brain function can be a powerful tool. This episode explores the concept that we are not our brains, bodies, experiences, emotions, or thoughts. By challenging societal narratives about the brain and consciousness, we can reframe our self-perception and reduce shame associated with trauma responses. Understanding the limitations of current scientific knowledge about consciousness helps us approach our healing journey with more self-compassion. This perspective shift can alleviate some of the emotional distress and self-judgment that often accompany trauma, allowing for a more balanced approach to recovery.
5.24 Guest Host | Trauma Tools for Other Hurdles
Who needs a little help processing from time to time? (raises hand) Let's hear how a fellow Fucker deals. Thanks for...