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self-Love pt 5: Practicuum BEGINS | Being with Your self Without Destructing
Onto the behavioral change! Your mission: engaging in new actions that allow you to see, feel, and hear your self....
Actual self-love pt 4.5: Victimhood vs. self-Compassion
Following up on last episode: When are we softening towards ourselves in compassion... vs. self-victimizing? There's a...
self-Love Pt 4: Fear of Sad & Dismissal of self
How do you feel about sadness? When judgments of being victimy and "fear of sad" prevail, we lose half our lives to...
self-Love pt 3: These pussyasswords and the stabbing requirement for self-acceptance
Eye-roll-worthy words + the most painful work = "why tf are we doing this?" Disband your self, and you'll find out you...
Actual self-Love pt 2 | Obstacles cont’d: The Aftermath, self-Blame, Parts Wars, and self-grudgery
What else stands in the way of self love? Post-traumatic self-judgment and polarized versions of self. Let's talk...
“Doing inner work” & How-to do it effectively with media
What IS the inner work? What's the end goal? How do we do it effectively alongside media? Let's talk about trauma...
Video+Transcript! No BS. How NOT to fuck your self up with the self-defense series
"I fucked up and I'm sorry." Let's talk about how NOT to use the self-defense episodes - which I fear I may have been...
Actual self-Love pt I: Qualifying Obstacles
What stands in the way of self-love? We discuss relational barriers from the past and criteria you might be holding...
“Why can’t I show joy to others?”
The danger of showing appreciation? It's disempowering according to the past. Let's talk about reasons and solutions....
Joyfully risk-taking, fucking up, and healing trauma
Followup post! Fucking up isn't shameful, it's required for healing..A joyful approach to risk-taking and...
Avoiding & Compassionately Rectifying “Abuse Supporting Stupidity”
Followup post! How can we combat the brain's tendency to willfully protect itself while maintaining a...
SUBC Shame Followup: Psych & Neurobio: Your brain vs. imagined realities
"I didn't think that would work but it did." Followup that shame 'sode. Today lez talk about WHY leaning into your...
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[ pt 2 ] No BS: Using self-defense knowledge for healing self and other pt 2 | Video+Tscript
Back to compassionate understanding and acting in the face of immature self-defense mechanisms! A few additions to...
How to overcome trauma shame? A “lean into it” approach.
You asked, I answer. How to overcome shame surrounding traumatic events? I have a bottom-up approach that targets the...
BONUS NUG: The Freedom of Fucking Up (and apologizing when you do)
t-brain says: mistakes and apologies = danger. Especially in the self esteem department. h-brain says: nah, Fucker....