t-brain says: mistakes and apologies = danger. Especially in the self esteem department. h-brain says: nah, Fucker....

t-brain says: mistakes and apologies = danger. Especially in the self esteem department. h-brain says: nah, Fucker....
The question that fucks with us all, on both ends of the relationship dynamic. How do we define "abuse"? And how can...
Short and snappy, let's talk about Projective Identification. It's more than "Projection," it's a clusterfuck of...
Short and snappy, let's talk about Projective Identification. It's more than "Projection," it's a clusterfuck of...
What do the Salem witch trials, serial killers, and extremist political figures have in common? Today we discuss...
This comprehensive overview of defense mechanisms provides valuable insights into psychological coping strategies and their impact on trauma recovery. By understanding the hierarchy of defenses, from immature to mature, individuals and therapists can better identify and address maladaptive coping mechanisms. The focus on action defenses and major image distortions offers a deeper understanding of how these psychological processes can affect mental health and interpersonal relationships. Recognizing these patterns is crucial for developing more adaptive coping strategies and fostering emotional resilience in trauma recovery.
This episode explores the concept of “abuse-supporting stupidity” in narcissistic behavior patterns. It highlights how narcissists often engage in self-sabotaging behaviors due to their reliance on immature defense mechanisms and lack of self-reflection. The discussion emphasizes that abusers unintentionally create a disintegrated psychological environment, affecting both themselves and their victims. Understanding this process can help survivors make sense of their experiences and reduce self-blame for staying in abusive relationships. Recognizing these patterns is crucial for healing and breaking the cycle of abuse.
Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a powerful approach to trauma recovery that focuses on reconnecting with the body and processing stored emotions. This slide deck offers an introduction to SE, explaining its importance in addressing trauma-related stress responses and the challenges beginners may face. It provides practical tips and experiments for incorporating SE into daily life, emphasizing the role of nature, movement, and self-care. By learning to listen to our bodies and honor our biological needs, we can work towards healing and improved well-being.
"Concealed discharge of resentment / disappointment created by a lifetime of unmet needs." Let's talk about the depths...
"Concealed discharge of resentment / disappointment created by a lifetime of unmet needs." Let's talk about the depths...
This comprehensive slide deck exploration of mindfulness, metacognition, and traumatic training offers valuable insights for trauma recovery. By understanding how our past experiences shape our automatic responses, we can begin to rewire maladaptive behaviors. Mindfulness and metacognition serve as powerful tools for neutral self-observation, allowing us to question ingrained beliefs and make conscious decisions aligned with our present reality. The concept of “traumatic training” helps explain how childhood experiences can lead to lifelong patterns, while also offering hope for change through mindful awareness and intentional behavioral recalibration.
In our last BtB episode I used some poorly-understood words. Let's define "Mindfulness," "MetaCognition," and...
In this preview of new things already underway… As we talk about reality and processing, the Dunning-Kruger Effect...
In this preview of new things already underway… As we talk about reality and processing, the Dunning-Kruger Effect...
Transcript: This is a section that got left out of our last big research episode on Disintegrated, integrity-lacking,...
References: Caligor E: Narcissism in the Psychodynamic Diagnostic Manual. In Ogrodniczuk, J: Treating Pathological...