As we start discussing defense mechanisms, a Fucker thinks about the tactics used by employers and employees... and...
Posts Tagged "unmet needs"
“Thanksgetting” what you need | Spanksgiving special
Here we go! Let's rundown the ways to take care of ourselves (and maybe some need-deprived others) this holiday. ...
Gratitude; a t-loaded word | Spanksgiving Special 2023
What happens when "gratitude" loses all meaning? Or even, acquires negative meaning? Let's talk about why this holiday...
Revitalized Discussion Fawning X Unmet Needs
In 2021 the word of the year was Fawning. Today, let's revisit those discussions while layering on our...
3.10. Chronic deprivation, self-sabotage, psychosomatic illness, and abuse dynamics
This podcast episode explores the concept of chronic self-deprivation and its roots in childhood neglect. It discusses how unrecognized personal needs can lead to self-sabotage, psychosomatic illness, and codependency. The episode offers insights into breaking these patterns by identifying and fulfilling a comprehensive range of human needs, emphasizing the importance of self-care in trauma recovery and personal growth.
NVC shame, parts, and major points with Shelby | MFs Speak!
Today let's take a relcalibration break to hear the other major points hidden in NonViolent Communication. Straight...
Self-sabotage and your needs
If we deprive ourselves long enough? The SUB-C starts looking for new means of getting our needs met. Let's whiteboard...
BONUS – Identify your hidden vs. over-emphasized needs
If we're masters at masking our own needs so recovery becomes impossible... how can we start to figure out the ways...
Concept Introduction: Coercion, control tactics, abuse programming, and family need enmeshment
How do deprived and "unallowed" needs connect with our accrual of CPTSD and abuse-acceptance? Let's talk about our...
Clarification! Conscious vs Subconscious Need Fulfillling Behaviors
Just a quick point to drive home several times over. No, you're not CHOOSING self-destruction. Check "Nobody should...
7. Deprived Needs, the SUB-C, Self-sabotage and Psychosomatic Illness
So we love to deprive ourselves "for goodness" - but what happens when your subconscious has enough? Today, talking...
6. “Secondary” Needs and Emotions; Chronic Self-Entrapment
How do we mask our needs from ourselves, fruitlessly dumping energy into areas of life that won't return any chemical...
6. “Secondary” Needs and Emotions; Chronic Self-Entrapment | Workbook+Video!
Eek. Talk about self-deprivation....... no, really, let's talk about self-deprivation, masquerading as "meeting our...
BONUS! NVC x IFS Conceptual Overlap
When does an unmet need become a "burden"? What does conflict signify? What's the answer to resolving interpersonal...
BONUS! NVC x IFS Conceptual Overlap
Hey y’all! Welcome to another bonus episode and thank you so much for supporting the project to this degree....
11.9.4. Rewiring yer Brain with NonViolent Communication | Video+Transcript
Notes:NonViolent Communication suggests our needs drive our emotions, which drive our perceptions.From that point, our...