The “main community center.” Discord is a 24/7 chat server for PC or mobile, letting you connect to MFs around the world in real time!

Find your subscription-locked invite in your Patreon Membership Benefits tab. Running into issues? Google “Patreon find my Discord invite” to get their step by step walkthrough.

Check the Community, Git Started with Patreon and FAQ pages for full details on what the TMFR Discord community is all about and how to use it! 

Patreon members, rejoice! Now you can access membership-locked forums on this very site in the Private Community Hub.

Talk topically or create conversations to find your t-penpals with less tech knowledge than Discord requires. Cut down on the notifications. And give yourself time to breathe between responses, if you’re not a rapid fire communicator.

Check your email for regular updates from Patreon. Comment on the posts as they hit your inbox to share your insights on individual episodes and resources.

You can also follow / discuss posts through the Private Community Hub as they’re pulled in from Patreon or added to the Private Blog. Comment through this site, or just browse according to Season, Series, and Ranked Helpfulness. 

One of the post types you’ll encounter on Patreon is the Polling option. Watch your email notifications and Patreon activity stream for episode-related polls and discussion prompts.

Find out what other MFs think in relation to our topical focuses each month & feel all the more “seen and sane.” Leave comments to expand on your answers and engage with fellow Fuckers.

Got Qs or comments? I might have answers. Send your share, story, inquiry, or suggestion… and check outcoming episodes for the best responses I’ve got.

DO Members get priority? Youbetcha. Check the Contact and Contribute page for more info!

REALLY looking to get connected? Check the MFs Speaks! episodes for shares from wise Fuckers like you. Find out, as always, that you’ve never been alone.

When you’re feeling like challenging your own self-limitations? Contribute your own and give the callout to other MFs who might “get it.” For more information, hit the Contact and Contribute page.

I’ll be honest, I don’t believe in social media for trauma brains, myself. But I try to maintain an IG feed that spreads actual information and advice, in case ya juuuust need to disassoci-scroll.

Hit up the Instagram feed from this site to browse my posts and subscribe to the handle. Cackle with friends and find fellow followers who you might want to talk to further.

If you’re up for a challenge, consider the Git Changing tier. Gain access to even more resources and find a group of extra-dedicated MFs commenting on those posts.

Videos, transcripts, reflection prompts, exercise episodes add to the conversations and deepen the “advanced trauma” learnings. Plus, the wise MFs in these tiers are often spitting out suggested resources of their own!