This podcast episode explores the complex topic of filial obligation, discussing various philosophical perspectives on children’s duties towards their parents. It examines the relationship between ambivalence, guilt, and caregiver burden in parent-child dynamics. The episode also considers cultural differences in approaching filial piety, including Confucian views on self-realization through familial duty. It addresses the factors that influence the perception and outcomes of filial caregiving, offering listeners insights to navigate these challenging family decisions.
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Parent-Child Ambivalence, Guilt, and Care Perception | Extra Research
Episode linkVideo link I know I keep doing this thing where I’m like “OH! One more point!” But. I have about three...
FINALE: Six Predictive Pillars of Filial Outcomes | Return to FilOb pt 4
So in all this Filial talk, the real question that I keep bringing up may be…. Why bother discussing it? We can run...
Parent-Child Ambivalence, Guilt, and Care Perception | Extra Research
Count this as an extra dive into 3 research papers. What's the connection between perception, caregiving burden,...
FINALE: Six Predictive Pillars of Filial Outcomes | Return to FilOb pt 4
Let's bring this back down to earth. Philosophies meet t-real life and 2 additional research studies, as we draw our...
“What do I owe this decrepit asshole?” by Dominic | FilOb Community Feedback
After all these academic approaches to the debate of Filial Obligation, let's hear from a RL MF on his philosophy and...
One Scrambling View: “It’s about you” | Return to FilOb pt III
Just one major point today as a catalyst to throwing your own thoughts in a perspectual blender. What if Filial...
Yer Subconscious Narratives on Filial Obligation | FilOb Revisited pt II
We KNOW what comes from Filial Obligation with abusive people... anxiety, depression, sense of incapacity and...
Supplemental Summary of VulNarcs v. Recovery & Some Community Comments
Unexpected delivery, knocking at your door. Hey Fuckers. FIrst of all, it’s Friday morning after the...
VulNarcs and Past Negative Time Orientation; Using Time, Space, Energy for Growth or Narcissism
We need time, space, and energy for recovery. But what happens if we mal-use those resources? Today, we're diving into...
Transcript | VulNarcs and Past Negative Time Orientation; Using Time, Space, Energy for Growth or Narcissism
So, I hope you listened to that little introduction to 2024 that I just released. As I told you, I’m…. quitting this...
Get your fucking shit aligned, 2024
Time to make sure we don't relive the same year out of habit or hellish survival mechanisms gone wild. Let's look at...
Guilt vs Shame, vs the Ego. Or, “Why our relationships suck.”
OKAY MY MOTHA FUCKS. Months ago in August we spoke about the challenge of apologizing, for real, with the purpose of...
Gratitude II | Christmas Edition
So around Tgiving we had a shorter episode release discussing the issues with “gratitude” after a long life of...
Abuse Acronyms: DARVO and SAPIEN
Helllooooo Fuckers! As part of our “rounding out reasons relationships wreck us” emphasis in 2023, and as a piece of...
Sex vs. Parts, Programs, and Expectations | Sex on CPTSD pt I
This podcast episode explores the complex relationship between trauma, CPTSD, and sexuality. It discusses how childhood narratives, early experiences, and adult adaptations can create conflicting internal “parts” that influence sexual behavior and attitudes. The episode introduces the concept of examining sexual dysfunction through the lens of Internal Family Systems, encouraging listeners to understand their sexual history and patterns for better integration and healing.