This podcast episode explores the complex relationship between trauma, CPTSD, and sexuality. It discusses how childhood narratives, early experiences, and adult adaptations can create conflicting internal “parts” that influence sexual behavior and attitudes. The episode introduces the concept of examining sexual dysfunction through the lens of Internal Family Systems, encouraging listeners to understand their sexual history and patterns for better integration and healing.
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Reflecting on your “cycles” in 2023
Hey Fuckers. I’m just sitting here, eating some eggs, thinking about you all, the past, and the future… and felt...
HOLIDAY TIME: Gratitude II (a better attitude)
There's plenty to be grateful for this holiday. If you spend time with family, it'll be right in front of your face....
Shame vs. Guilt
What's the difference between shame and guilt? And how do they mandate relationship wreckage? As always, Idunno. But...
Abuse Acronyms to Know: DARVO & SAPIEN
Can't wrap a year on relationships without talking abuse tactics. Let's discuss DARVO and SAPIEN - strategies to be...
BONUS ED: Sex on CPTSD pt II
BONUS EDITION: Find extra content in this version. Well hello and welcome to a surprise show, for all of us. The world...
End of Year Extra: Your Cycles
A Fucker loves to "close out the year." Let's take a look at the cycles you've been through and identify important...
Sex on CPTSD pt II
The world didn't end after the last post and I have more to say. Let's talk about identifying if your sexual life is...
3.12a. Transference, Projection, Monkey-barring, Displacement
This podcast episode explores various forms of transference in relationships and mental health, including projection, monkey-barring, and displacement. It discusses how these cognitive patterns can affect interpersonal dynamics and therapy outcomes. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and critical thinking in recognizing and addressing these patterns for improved emotional intelligence and relationship health.
Sex, parts, programming, and needs
So, Fuckers. We’re “wrapping up” relationships as we round out 2023. Which isn't really true, because CPTSD is so...
Sex, parts, programming, and needs
We've talked about intimacy... but not *intimacy.* Diving into sex, let's talk about childhood and adult programming...
TRANSFERENCE VIDEO!
Been working on an all new experience for you, including animated videos! Let's talk about Transference in the highest...
Emotional Transference, Displacement, Projection, and Monkey-barring
"You should do an episode on Transference," one of y'all said. I resisted, until "Displacement" became a point of...
Self-abandonment vs your best Spanksgiving | Surprise Spanksgiving Special
Let's cut the brainy shit, the real answer to surviving the holidays is not abandoning yourself.
“Thanksgetting” what you need | Spanksgiving special
Here we go! Let's rundown the ways to take care of ourselves (and maybe some need-deprived others) this holiday. ...
Gratitude; a t-loaded word | Spanksgiving Special 2023
What happens when "gratitude" loses all meaning? Or even, acquires negative meaning? Let's talk about why this holiday...