This episode explores the concept of “abuse-supporting stupidity” in narcissistic behavior patterns. It highlights how narcissists often engage in self-sabotaging behaviors due to their reliance on immature defense mechanisms and lack of self-reflection. The discussion emphasizes that abusers unintentionally create a disintegrated psychological environment, affecting both themselves and their victims. Understanding this process can help survivors make sense of their experiences and reduce self-blame for staying in abusive relationships. Recognizing these patterns is crucial for healing and breaking the cycle of abuse.
Posts Tagged "disintegration"
(lack of) Nuance x CPTSD | Video+Transcript
Y'all wanted to keep talking "implications of narc research," and ya've not been forgotten! Let's talk Nuance and...
4.4. Pathological Structuring of Narcissists (Or, No Integrity without Integration)
This podcast episode explores the disorganized personality structuring of narcissists, explaining how their lack of integration affects their behavior and relationships. It discusses different levels of personality organization and how narcissists’ fragmented psyches lead to inconsistent and often manipulative actions. The episode draws parallels between narcissistic behaviors and childlike reactions, offering insights into why narcissists may seem unpredictable or intentionally deceptive. It also touches on the importance of self-integration in developing personal integrity and maintaining healthy relationships.
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt II | Video+Transcript
Transcript Hi Fuckers! We’re back to talk about the structural disorganization of narcissists, and, therefore, the...
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt II
Let's compare narcissism to the levels of personality functioning that range from "mature" to "psychopathological,"...
Transcript-Workbook for Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I
Doing a smarter thing starting this month! Here's the transcript, main points summary, doods, and reflection Qs in...
10.39 Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I
What's the basis for our initial deep connections? And where does that get lost along the way? Locking both partners...
6.1 Emotional Dissociation | Depersonalization
Ever wonder where your feelings went? Yeah, well, we all do. But ever wonder if you really exist at all? Intense...
5.11 Bonus May AMA | “How’d you use ABA to realize your VulNarc parent?”
It's a long story, starting with ABA, moving through parts theory, and ending at "holy fuck, my whole life has been...