So in all this Filial talk, the real question that I keep bringing up may be…. Why bother discussing it? We can run...
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FINALE: Six Predictive Pillars of Filial Outcomes | Return to FilOb pt 4
Let's bring this back down to earth. Philosophies meet t-real life and 2 additional research studies, as we draw our...
“What do I owe this decrepit asshole?” by Dominic | FilOb Community Feedback
After all these academic approaches to the debate of Filial Obligation, let's hear from a RL MF on his philosophy and...
CMNTY Catchup: VulNarc Feedback and the Announcement
Back to your comments! Let's share your words on VulNarc observations around needs, manipulation, and negativity.
Filial Obligation Revisited pt 1: Upsetting Eastern Perspectives
The crossover between VulNarcs and FilOb is considerable. Hell, parental duty is how many of us get acquainted with...
HOLIDAY TIME: Gratitude II (a better attitude)
There's plenty to be grateful for this holiday. If you spend time with family, it'll be right in front of your face....
“Thanksgetting” what you need | Spanksgiving special
Here we go! Let's rundown the ways to take care of ourselves (and maybe some need-deprived others) this holiday. ...
3.11. Ten Destructive Responses that Set Off Trauma Defenses
My Fuckers. Hey there. Thanks for stopping by and listening to my Spotify for Podcasters ad (assuming that’s...
9. DAMAGING Responses to Vulnerable Conversation: Examples 6-10
Back to it! Here are the next 5 ways we commonly respond to others which shuts down discussion, fosters...
Transcript 8. DAMAGING Responses to Vulnerable Conversation: Examples 1-5
Hey Fuckers! We’re here, to get back into the communication aspects of NVC. We’ve been on a bit of a journey...
8. DAMAGING Responses to Vulnerable Conversation: Examples 1-5
What shuts down effective communication efforts? Well, we’ve got 10 “unrecommended” responses for you. We’ll talk...
3.10. Chronic deprivation, self-sabotage, psychosomatic illness, and abuse dynamics
NonViolent Communication language x unmet needs Hey Fuckers. Guess who’s showing up a week late on this platform? It’s...
NVC shame, parts, and major points with Shelby | MFs Speak!
Today let's take a relcalibration break to hear the other major points hidden in NonViolent Communication. Straight...
*NEW* BONUS – Building Community – Reflection Qs From NVC Ep 7
Trying a new thing! Leading your reflections and opening space for new community building! ~~ Get your Reflection Qs...
Concept Introduction: Coercion, control tactics, abuse programming, and family need enmeshment
How do deprived and "unallowed" needs connect with our accrual of CPTSD and abuse-acceptance? Let's talk about our...
7. Self-sabotage and psychosomatic illness V. your SUBC shittery | Important Workbook!
Notes: We have rigid rules about what needs are "allowed" for us in normal circumstances. Those rules often create...