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Posts Tagged "interpersonal dynamics"

4.4. Pathological Structuring of Narcissists (Or, No Integrity without Integration)

4.4. Pathological Structuring of Narcissists (Or, No Integrity without Integration)

This podcast episode explores the disorganized personality structuring of narcissists, explaining how their lack of integration affects their behavior and relationships. It discusses different levels of personality organization and how narcissists’ fragmented psyches lead to inconsistent and often manipulative actions. The episode draws parallels between narcissistic behaviors and childlike reactions, offering insights into why narcissists may seem unpredictable or intentionally deceptive. It also touches on the importance of self-integration in developing personal integrity and maintaining healthy relationships.

3.12a. Transference, Projection, Monkey-barring, Displacement

3.12a. Transference, Projection, Monkey-barring, Displacement

This podcast episode explores various forms of transference in relationships and mental health, including projection, monkey-barring, and displacement. It discusses how these cognitive patterns can affect interpersonal dynamics and therapy outcomes. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and critical thinking in recognizing and addressing these patterns for improved emotional intelligence and relationship health.

3.11. Ten Destructive Responses that Set Off Trauma Defenses

3.11. Ten Destructive Responses that Set Off Trauma Defenses

This podcast episode explores ten destructive responses to avoid in sensitive conversations, based on NonViolent Communication principles. It discusses why people use these responses and their impact on relationships. The episode provides insights into improving communication skills, especially during stressful holiday interactions with family. It emphasizes the importance of empathy, active listening, and self-awareness in fostering healthier interpersonal dynamics.

3.12a. Transference, Projection, Monkey-barring, Displacement

3.5 Shadow parts vs. successful relationships | Internal VIT for healthy connections

This podcast episode explores the impact of childhood trauma on adult relationships through the lens of Internal Family Systems. It discusses how unresolved inner conflicts and self-protective behaviors can sabotage connections, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and inner work. The episode offers insights into healing childhood relationship trauma and building healthier connections by understanding and addressing our internal “parts.”