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Another VulNarc Hypothesis: asking for help and manipulation
Had another thought about the connection between VulNarcdom and the traumatized phases it seems to be encapsulated in....
Another VulNarc Hypothesis: asking for help and manipulation
Had another thought about the connection between VulNarcdom and the traumatized phases it seems to be encapsulated in....
3.12a. Transference, Projection, Monkey-barring, Displacement
Hey Motherfuckers. How are you? How did you survive Thanksgiving? How festive have you been feeling? And what can I...
TRANSFERENCE VIDEO!
Been working on an all new experience for you, including animated videos! Let's talk about Transference in the highest...
Transcript | Emotional Transference, Displacement, Projection, Monkey-barring
Hey Fuckers! I’m going to talk at you for a minute before we get into the episode. Because I feel like we need to...
Emotional Transference, Displacement, Projection, and Monkey-barring
"You should do an episode on Transference," one of y'all said. I resisted, until "Displacement" became a point of...
Concept Introduction: Coercion, control tactics, abuse programming, and family need enmeshment
How do deprived and "unallowed" needs connect with our accrual of CPTSD and abuse-acceptance? Let's talk about our...
Video+Transcript! Intro to Nonviolent Communication | Conceptual Re-education
My whiteboard and face are back after needing a self-care break! Let's run through the 4 steps of NVC, in preparation...
1. Intro to Nonviolent Communication | Conceptual Re-education before the Deets
Why is "humaning" so hard? Well it doesn't help that roughly none of us know how to speak to each other without...
Workbook | Non-apology Apologies
Notes: Relationships can't heal unless we come together from self-undefensive places, make efforts to understand the...
14 types of non-apology apologies & how-to do them better
How we say "I'm sorry" really matters. Let's talk about ways that people do it poorly, and what those half-assed...
Extra Fs to give in Relationships
Check out the workbook version of this post by subscribing to the Git Changing tier on Patreon and then heading to the...
Ignoring Red Flags; a real life nightmare
Alert: change in programming! And I'll tell ya why. This month we talked about the real difficulty in starting healthy...
10.48 Extra “survival Fs” to give in relationship; Fronting and Feigning
We all know about the 4 survival Fs at this point. But how about the additional F reactions- Fronting and Feigning?...
Workbook! Extra F’s to give in relationships
Notes: We react with "survival Fs" when we sense our safety is in question. I propose there are at least 2 additional...