Living in misery because it feels safer that way? Yeah, it's a trauma problem. Let's talk about deprivation as...
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Another VulNarc Hypothesis: asking for help and manipulation
Had another thought about the connection between VulNarcdom and the traumatized phases it seems to be encapsulated in....
Another VulNarc Hypothesis: asking for help and manipulation
Had another thought about the connection between VulNarcdom and the traumatized phases it seems to be encapsulated in....
Sex, parts, programming, and needs
So, Fuckers. We’re “wrapping up” relationships as we round out 2023. Which isn't really true, because CPTSD is so...
Sex, parts, programming, and needs
We've talked about intimacy... but not *intimacy.* Diving into sex, let's talk about childhood and adult programming...
AMA “Which emotions correlate with which of my needs?”
You Q'd I A'd. Let's talk about Transference (Classic) and the other forms (Projection, Monkey-barring,...
NVC shame, parts, and major points with Shelby | MFs Speak!
Today let's take a relcalibration break to hear the other major points hidden in NonViolent Communication. Straight...
*NEW* BONUS – Building Community – Reflection Qs From NVC Ep 7
Trying a new thing! Leading your reflections and opening space for new community building! ~~ Get your Reflection Qs...
Self-sabotage and your needs
If we deprive ourselves long enough? The SUB-C starts looking for new means of getting our needs met. Let's whiteboard...
BONUS – Identify your hidden vs. over-emphasized needs
If we're masters at masking our own needs so recovery becomes impossible... how can we start to figure out the ways...
Concept Introduction: Coercion, control tactics, abuse programming, and family need enmeshment
How do deprived and "unallowed" needs connect with our accrual of CPTSD and abuse-acceptance? Let's talk about our...
7. Self-sabotage and psychosomatic illness V. your SUBC shittery | Important Workbook!
Notes: We have rigid rules about what needs are "allowed" for us in normal circumstances. Those rules often create...
Clarification! Conscious vs Subconscious Need Fulfillling Behaviors
Just a quick point to drive home several times over. No, you're not CHOOSING self-destruction. Check "Nobody should...
6. “Secondary” Needs and Emotions; Chronic Self-Entrapment
How do we mask our needs from ourselves, fruitlessly dumping energy into areas of life that won't return any chemical...
BONUS! Applied NVC Vignettes and Exercises
It's a full length Bonus episode! Let's cover additional examples / pointers from Rosenberg and run through 4...
BONUS! Clarifying NVC Vignettes and Exercises
We work on transforming our relationships until the next trigger arises … and then we find ourselves back in the...