Eye-roll-worthy words + the most painful work = "why tf are we doing this?" Disband your self, and you'll find out you...
Posts Tagged "psychology"
self-Love pt 2.5 | Obstacles: self-Love Unallowance
What're ya holding against yourself? Perhaps..memory of the last time you tempted fate with one audacious act......
Trauma Thoughts | Identifying and Deprogramming Cognitive Bullshit
"whoops that's a trauma thought." -all of us. Logical fallacies, overgeneralizations, B&W rulings, toxic...
Video+Transcript | self-Defenses Level 2: Major Image Distortions
In this episode, we delve into level two immature defenses, specifically major image distorting defenses. These psychological mechanisms protect individuals from anxiety by simplifying perceptions of self and others into all-good or all-bad categories. While these defenses may provide temporary relief, they often lead to negative consequences in relationships and can contribute to depression. Understanding these defense mechanisms can help individuals recognize patterns in themselves and others, potentially leading to more nuanced and healthier ways of processing emotions and experiences.
4.6. Acting out, Help-rejecting complaining, and Passive Aggression; The (most) Immature Defenses
This podcast episode explores immature self-defense mechanisms in trauma recovery, focusing on acting out, help-rejecting complaining, and passive aggression. It discusses how these behaviors develop from childhood experiences and persist into adulthood, affecting relationships and personal growth. The episode examines the functions of these mechanisms and their impact on emotional regulation and social interactions. By understanding these patterns, listeners can gain insights into their own behaviors and those of others, potentially leading to more effective coping strategies and improved self-awareness.
Video Version! Defense Mechanisms: Passive Aggression
"Concealed discharge of resentment / disappointment created by a lifetime of unmet needs." Let's talk about the depths...
Defense Mechanisms: Passive Aggression
"Concealed discharge of resentment / disappointment created by a lifetime of unmet needs." Let's talk about the depths...
4.4. Pathological Structuring of Narcissists (Or, No Integrity without Integration)
This podcast episode explores the disorganized personality structuring of narcissists, explaining how their lack of integration affects their behavior and relationships. It discusses different levels of personality organization and how narcissists’ fragmented psyches lead to inconsistent and often manipulative actions. The episode draws parallels between narcissistic behaviors and childlike reactions, offering insights into why narcissists may seem unpredictable or intentionally deceptive. It also touches on the importance of self-integration in developing personal integrity and maintaining healthy relationships.
BONUS Supplement: 3 Theories of self Structure Developed in Narcissistic Upbringings | Transcript
References: Di Pierro R, Fanti E. Self-Concept in Narcissism: Profile Comparisons of Narcissistic Manifestations on...
BONUS Supplement: 3 Theories of self Structure Developed in Narcissistic Upbringings | Transcript
Yooooo Fuckers! As long as we’re talking about self and healing these days, I wanted to share with you - the...
“Feel good about yourself.” For Real. Building self Esteem x Parts Work | Transcript
Hey, I just wanted to say…. Feel good about yourself and don’t let anyone or anyTHING change that, ever. It’s the...
self vs. Self | Video+Transcript
Transcript: I thought it would be a good idea to do a little refresher on some concepts that we discuss often, but...
self vs. Self
In our last paper we heard that "self" isn't well defined in psychology... then layer in the innate healing capability...
Comment-Inspired Followup! “Adaptive Narcissism” doesn’t exist & visualizing the spectrum of narcpathology
"Dr. Ramani says there's no such thing as Healthy Narcissism." EXACTLY FUCKER! Let's clear up what's been throwing...
4.3. Healing with “Adaptive Narcissism” and Uniqueness | Leveraging Stigma for Permissive self-Healing
This podcast episode explores the concept of “adaptive narcissism” and its potential benefits for trauma recovery and psychological resilience. It challenges common perceptions of narcissism, discussing how certain traits associated with grandiose narcissism, such as self-sufficiency and vanity, can be protective against PTSD symptoms. The episode emphasizes the importance of developing a healthy sense of uniqueness and authenticity while avoiding harmful aspects of narcissism like entitlement and exploitativeness.
Comment-Inspired Followup! “Adaptive Narcissism” doesn’t exist & visualizing the spectrum of narcpathology | Transcript
So oftentimes in this weird role I find myself in, I also find myself wondering “are my words working?” With such an...