Education and Responsibility are important for t-recovery… But progress peters when self-punishment predominates....
Posts Tagged "self-deprivation"
Personal: Family Patterning & Deprivation Default Mode
Self Compassion vs. Asceticism: Joyless Living as self-Defense
Living in misery because it feels safer that way? Yeah, it's a trauma problem. Let's talk about deprivation as...
*NEW* BONUS – Building Community – Reflection Qs From NVC Ep 7
Trying a new thing! Leading your reflections and opening space for new community building! ~~ Get your Reflection Qs...
Self-sabotage and your needs
If we deprive ourselves long enough? The SUB-C starts looking for new means of getting our needs met. Let's whiteboard...
BONUS – Identify your hidden vs. over-emphasized needs
If we're masters at masking our own needs so recovery becomes impossible... how can we start to figure out the ways...
Concept Introduction: Coercion, control tactics, abuse programming, and family need enmeshment
How do deprived and "unallowed" needs connect with our accrual of CPTSD and abuse-acceptance? Let's talk about our...
Clarification! Conscious vs Subconscious Need Fulfillling Behaviors
Just a quick point to drive home several times over. No, you're not CHOOSING self-destruction. Check "Nobody should...
7. Deprived Needs, the SUB-C, Self-sabotage and Psychosomatic Illness
So we love to deprive ourselves "for goodness" - but what happens when your subconscious has enough? Today, talking...