It's the public summary of our work from the past month! The filthiest words: love yourself. 🤮 Why does trauma create...
Posts Tagged "self-esteem"
self-Love pt 2.5 | Obstacles: self-Love Unallowance
What're ya holding against yourself? Perhaps..memory of the last time you tempted fate with one audacious act......
Video+Transcript! No BS. How NOT to fuck your self up with the self-defense series
"I fucked up and I'm sorry." Let's talk about how NOT to use the self-defense episodes - which I fear I may have been...
Actual self-Love pt I: Qualifying Obstacles
What stands in the way of self-love? We discuss relational barriers from the past and criteria you might be holding...
BONUS NUG: The Freedom of Fucking Up (and apologizing when you do)
t-brain says: mistakes and apologies = danger. Especially in the self esteem department. h-brain says: nah, Fucker....
4.7 Major-Image Distorting self-Defenses [Splitting and Projective Identification]
Splitting (AKA – Reality-Obscuring Compartmentalization)
What do the Salem witch trials, serial killers, and extremist political figures have in common? Today we discuss...
Dunning-Kruger vs. Reality | Transcript
In this preview of new things already underway… As we talk about reality and processing, the Dunning-Kruger Effect...
Dunning-Kruger vs. Reality
In this preview of new things already underway… As we talk about reality and processing, the Dunning-Kruger Effect...
REALITY TESTING (con’t of Type I and II Processing)
Picking up from our discussion of intellectualizing, rationalizing, narcs, and processing styles, let's talk about...
YOUR RESILIENCY | Video+Bonus Qs to give your self some motherfucking credit (pt 7)
Your self needs to see how it’s been strong and what wiles it has to this day, to offset your self-estimations that may inaccurately center around weakness and disempowerment, doubt and exhaustion.Â
Your self Authority, Authenticity, Integrity Pts 1-6 | Transcript+Video
Contents Part 1 - Introduction Part 2 - Self-sufficiency and Credit Part 3 - Self Authority Part 4 - Empowerment &...
4.4. Pathological Structuring of Narcissists (Or, No Integrity without Integration)
This podcast episode explores the disorganized personality structuring of narcissists, explaining how their lack of integration affects their behavior and relationships. It discusses different levels of personality organization and how narcissists’ fragmented psyches lead to inconsistent and often manipulative actions. The episode draws parallels between narcissistic behaviors and childlike reactions, offering insights into why narcissists may seem unpredictable or intentionally deceptive. It also touches on the importance of self-integration in developing personal integrity and maintaining healthy relationships.
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt II | Video+Transcript
Transcript Hi Fuckers! We’re back to talk about the structural disorganization of narcissists, and, therefore, the...
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt II
Let's compare narcissism to the levels of personality functioning that range from "mature" to "psychopathological,"...
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt I
There is NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION, and these fuckers use relationships as stand-ins for doing the work.