NEW EPISODE FORMAT: EP 0 Parasocial relationships. Gift or curse? Both. Let's do this responsibly, applying what we...
Posts Tagged "trauma patterns"
Joyfully risk-taking, fucking up, and healing trauma
Followup post! Fucking up isn't shameful, it's required for healing..A joyful approach to risk-taking and...
Avoiding & Compassionately Rectifying “Abuse Supporting Stupidity”
Followup post! How can we combat the brain's tendency to willfully protect itself while maintaining a...
“My partner has CPTSD, how do I convince them to seek treatment?”
A common question, answered. But if you're new to CPTSD learnin, it might make ya mad. (sorry). Stay tuned for the...
Back to Basics: Defining “Mindfulness, MetaCognition, and Traumatic Training”
In our last BtB episode I used some poorly-understood words. Let's define "Mindfulness," "MetaCognition," and...
11.9.4. Rewiring yer Brain with NonViolent Communication
Better communication? Great. A recovered t-brain from the same process? Now we're fckn talkin bud. Today, we're...
8.15 Progress Made & “SHOULD” Obstinance | Words by MF Leanne
Time for some good news. Let's hear from our MF Leanne from down under, and soak up her insights on recovery so far!...
8.14 What SHOULD you be doing?
Let's have one easy conversation and call "societal trauma" wrapped for a beat. Talkin' dialectics and their...
8.11 EXERCISE | Lessons Learned from the Cage
How do we start to spot the societal trauma lessons in our own selves, through examining our family behaviors? Today,...
VISUALS | Rat Wars Transcript!
Here's the visual version of what we're scrappin' about this week! Rat Wars Pt I & II, the blog. Cheers,...
8.10 Caged Family Trauma | Rat Wars Part II
The rats run for their pellets, the pellets are more worthless every day, and their (unwanted) families are growing...
Visuals and Transcript | When you can’t get the basics you need
Here's the wordy version AND my illustrations of the most recent post! Sorry, working on watercolors - Day 1. ...
8.4 When you can’t get the basics of life | Trauma-Society
So humans have done incredible things, right? Or have we constructed our own cages and called it "progress." Born into...
8.3 ACEs and Societal Disgraces | FDCDC
So why didn't you hear about childhood trauma for so long? Ready for some bullshit? Let's talk about the ACEs writeup...
8.1 Work vs. Recovery | Control your own time
Work. We all have to do it. With trauma, we aren't usually very good at it. At least, we aren't good at finding jobs...
6.10 DECATHECT; Anxious-turns-Avoidant Attachment
Let's talk about the emotional detachment self-preservation tactic known as "Decathecting." You might know it as...