Welllll… we’re at it again. Having more “drive the point home” thoughts after reflecting on what was recently said....
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Workbook | Non-apology Apologies
Notes: Relationships can't heal unless we come together from self-undefensive places, make efforts to understand the...
Workbook! Relational rupture, without repair | The real problem in our relationships
Notes: We human animals focus on "conflict avoidance" as the measure of a good relationship - but conflict is...
BONUS Video! Visualizing “relationship dynamics”
"Relationship" can seem like a nebulous cloud. So let's keep breaking it down. How can we understand...
Workbook! Sensing “energies” in potential partners, and what it all means
Key points: (IMO) Assigning moralistic judgments ("good," "bad," "nice person") to new relational partners is not...
BONUS Video! Interpersonal dynamics, explained by Behavioral Science
Each relationship is a learned "dynamic." Each dynamic is a series of common interactions. Each...
Workbook! Extra F’s to give in relationships
Notes: We react with "survival Fs" when we sense our safety is in question. I propose there are at least 2 additional...
10.43 BONUS Disclosure followthrough: behind the scenes in traumarific times
I got terrible at something in the past year or so; relational self-disclosure and expression. For protective reasons....
Why “healthy communication and expectation” doesn’t exist: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT 2 | Video+Workbook
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This podcast episode explores the complexities of relationships and how our inner worlds affect our interactions with partners. It discusses how unresolved traumas and protective behaviors can influence relationship dynamics, often unconsciously. The episode examines different internal ‘parts’ – such as exiles, managers, and protectors – and how they manifest in partnerships. It touches on common communication challenges and the patterns that emerge when different internal parts interact. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and healing in fostering healthier relationships. While not offering definitive solutions, this episode provides a framework for understanding some of the psychological underpinnings of relationship difficulties and the potential for growth through self-reflection.
Final VIT video release! Healing communication issues between parts in partners – pt 3
You got it, the tiny rundown on episode #3 of the month! Here's the short and skinny on healing relationships...
VIT videos videos videos! A month in review pt I
We covered A LOT this month - so here's the full rundown in doodles! Each short corresponds to an episode on the...
Workbook-transcript! Healing hellish communication and re-instating authentic love | Parts on Parts violence between partners PT 3
Here's ya major points, rough transcript, doodleys, and reflection Qs for the week's episode! Download below. Hope it...
Transcript-Workbook for Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I
Doing a smarter thing starting this month! Here's the transcript, main points summary, doods, and reflection Qs in...
10.34 VIT BONUS | Uncovering layers of relationship narratives and unfulfilled needs
If we need internal VIT to form healthy external relationships, how do we get started? Most of us don't know what our...
Workbook! Disorganized attachment through IFS | YOUR Parts in Relationship Pt 2
Reminder! This is the blogged version of the workbook. It's not fancy in this form. Want the nice formatting? Yeah you...
Videum! Vulnerable Relationship Issues and YOUR Parts
Time to dood together! Let's summarize the main points of the month in watercolors, and bring a little light to the...