Followup post! How can we combat the brain's tendency to willfully protect itself while maintaining a...
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Followup post! How can we combat the brain's tendency to willfully protect itself while maintaining a...
The question that fucks with us all, on both ends of the relationship dynamic. How do we define "abuse"? And how can...
This episode explores the concept of “abuse-supporting stupidity” in narcissistic behavior patterns. It highlights how narcissists often engage in self-sabotaging behaviors due to their reliance on immature defense mechanisms and lack of self-reflection. The discussion emphasizes that abusers unintentionally create a disintegrated psychological environment, affecting both themselves and their victims. Understanding this process can help survivors make sense of their experiences and reduce self-blame for staying in abusive relationships. Recognizing these patterns is crucial for healing and breaking the cycle of abuse.
This podcast episode explores the disorganized personality structuring of narcissists, explaining how their lack of integration affects their behavior and relationships. It discusses different levels of personality organization and how narcissists’ fragmented psyches lead to inconsistent and often manipulative actions. The episode draws parallels between narcissistic behaviors and childlike reactions, offering insights into why narcissists may seem unpredictable or intentionally deceptive. It also touches on the importance of self-integration in developing personal integrity and maintaining healthy relationships.
Unexpected delivery, knocking at your door. Hey Fuckers. FIrst of all, it’s Friday morning after the...
Not to skim over your kindly comments, but I'll sob... Let's do a bitesized summary/expansion of our VulNarc talk and...
Can't wrap a year on relationships without talking abuse tactics. Let's discuss DARVO and SAPIEN - strategies to be...
This podcast episode explores the concept of chronic self-deprivation and its roots in childhood neglect. It discusses how unrecognized personal needs can lead to self-sabotage, psychosomatic illness, and codependency. The episode offers insights into breaking these patterns by identifying and fulfilling a comprehensive range of human needs, emphasizing the importance of self-care in trauma recovery and personal growth.
Today let's take a relcalibration break to hear the other major points hidden in NonViolent Communication. Straight...
Ever have your family members directly state your core CPTSD wounds aloud, with no idea what they're saying? I have....
I got terrible at something in the past year or so; relational self-disclosure and expression. For protective reasons....
This here is the blog version of the podcast stream miniseries on CPTSD, episode... maybe "the last of them." When...
Explore the lived experience of Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD) in this informative podcast episode. Learn about the cognitive, emotional, and physical effects of untreated trauma, including shame, anxiety, and relationship challenges. Gain insights into the daily struggles of those living with CPTSD and understand the importance of proper trauma therapy for recovery.
Let's take an unexpected step back, and talk more about the EXPERIENCE of living with CPTSD, not just the brain...
Ya know, it's been a rough fucking ride for the past 18 months. I've slacked on some duties - like updating this blog,...
Hey, it's that second video I owed you from this series - the garbally audio vids that needed to be re-re-recorded....