Posts Tagged "abuse"

Supplemental Summary of VulNarcs v. Recovery & Some Community Comments

Jan 13, 2024 | Git Changing | Advanced, Narc Recovery, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Transcripts

Unexpected delivery, knocking at your door.  Hey Fuckers. FIrst of all, it’s Friday morning after the...

Supplemental Summary of VulNarcs v. Recovery & Some Community Comments

Jan 13, 2024 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Not to skim over your kindly comments, but I'll sob... Let's do a bitesized summary/expansion of our VulNarc talk and...

Abuse Acronyms to Know: DARVO & SAPIEN

Dec 15, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Can't wrap a year on relationships without talking abuse tactics. Let's discuss DARVO and SAPIEN - strategies to be...

3.10. Chronic deprivation, self-sabotage, psychosomatic illness, and abuse dynamics

Oct 20, 2023 | NonViolent Communication, Public Blog, Public Content, Public Season 03, Seasons, Series

NonViolent Communication language x unmet needs Hey Fuckers. Guess who’s showing up a week late on this platform? It’s...

NVC shame, parts, and major points with Shelby | MFs Speak!

Oct 20, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, MFs Speak!, NonViolent Communication, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

Today let's take a relcalibration break to hear the other major points hidden in NonViolent Communication. Straight...

BONUS No “right to safety” in the Family of Origin | When they say the quiet part out loud

Aug 21, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Ever have your family members directly state your core CPTSD wounds aloud, with no idea what they're saying? I have....

10.43 BONUS Disclosure followthrough: behind the scenes in traumarific times

Jun 23, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

I got terrible at something in the past year or so; relational self-disclosure and expression. For protective reasons....

12. Losing your Self

Jan 13, 2022 | Blog, Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Our Complex Trauma Learnings So Far, Public Blog, Public Season 01, Transcripts

This here is the blog version of the podcast stream miniseries on CPTSD, episode... maybe "the last of them." When...

1.3b. Yer Life on CPTSD

Nov 10, 2021 | Our Complex Trauma Learnings So Far, Public Content, Public Podcast, Public Season 01, Series

Let's take an unexpected step back, and talk more about the EXPERIENCE of living with CPTSD, not just the brain...

1.3b. Yer Life on CPTSD

Nov 10, 2021 | Blog, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, Public Season 01, RECOVERY, Transcripts

Welcome to part 3b - some might call it part IV - of this miniseries on "CPTSD catchup" from the past 1.5 years of...

Explaining “Complex PTSD” – What We’ve Learned So Far

Oct 16, 2021 | Blog, Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, RECOVERY

Ya know, it's been a rough fucking ride for the past 18 months. I've slacked on some duties - like updating this blog,...

Cognitive-Emotional Signs of Abusive Relationships

Oct 16, 2021 | Bonus Video, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content

Hey, it's that second video I owed you from this series - the garbally audio vids that needed to be re-re-recorded....

Brains Primed for Accepting Abuse

Oct 11, 2021 | Bonus Video, Brain Patterning, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content

Try number... two? Five? Let me know if there are still errors in this program! NOTE: downloadable link included at...

6.5 Spot Cyclical Abuse Patterns

Sep 30, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Changing | Advanced, Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content

Let's talk about pinpointing the trends in our romantic lives, by using our internal monitoring systems to notice the...

6.4 The Brain Basis of Abusive Relationships on Repeat

Sep 23, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Brain Patterning, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 06, Seasons, Subscriber Content

So why are all of your romantic (and otherwise) relationships chronically abusive? Especially when you're soooo dead...

✭✭ 5.31 Full Extended Version | Fawning, Enmeshment, Relational Triggers (What is CPTSD, Alex)

Jul 28, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Fawning, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful - 2 Stars, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful

As CPTSD trainees, we're programmed to give a lot of our energy to others. A lot of access to our brains, too. So what...