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TRANSFERENCE VIDEO!
Been working on an all new experience for you, including animated videos! Let's talk about Transference in the highest...
Transcript | Emotional Transference, Displacement, Projection, Monkey-barring
Hey Fuckers! I’m going to talk at you for a minute before we get into the episode. Because I feel like we need to...
Emotional Transference, Displacement, Projection, and Monkey-barring
"You should do an episode on Transference," one of y'all said. I resisted, until "Displacement" became a point of...
Community Discussion! Are relationships on your to-do list, or has isolation been too relieving?
There's a time for going solo AND many benefits to connecting with others... So where do you land these days? Let's...
Community discussion! How do YOU feel about close, connective relationships?
We've been talking about relationships from a semi-avoidant perspective... but where have YOU settled with your...
Video Bittle: Do you “Isolate” or “Insulate”?
When shit goes down, we tend to disappear. But… really, isolation is the last thing we need or fundamentally want. So what’s the deal?
What if we weren’t aiming for “isolating,” actually. But attempting to find “insulation” from all the triggers we can’t handle.
And here’s a worksheet version of that “Attachment Program Development” Video
In case you wanted to stick these shitty drawings somewhere for later reference.... Like, when your family, partner,...
VISUALIZE: Neuro- Attachment Style Development, Triggers, and Transience
You know, I said I was going to make visuals and videos. And I’m a MF of my word.
Here’s my (less dirty) mug, and the ways I tend to visualize the neuro-development, maintenance, and routine triggerings of relationship behavioral instructions (AKA attachment strategies).
Fragmented Relationships from Fragmented Selves; Good vs Bad
You know those times when you can’t escape a particular person, place, thing, or idea? Everywhere you go, you hear...
✭✭ 4.15 “Fragmented” Relationships
Expanding on fragmented personality via lessons from Janina Fisher and John Welwood (TMFR recommended authors). One of...
Friendship Dissolutions
So this is normally my school day, but I’m feeling the need to dig into something else this morning. The past events...
4.11 Friendship Dissolutions
Ever lose, you know, your best friends in a time of trauma responsiveness and spend years ruminating about it? Yeah,...
3.21 Annnnd I no longer trust myself to be in any relationship
So, it’s been a rough relationship past. Now… is it possible to make good decisions? Or am I headed down a narc spiral...