Posts Tagged "brain programming"

Abuse Acronyms: DARVO and SAPIEN

Dec 23, 2023 | CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Transcripts

Helllooooo Fuckers! As part of our “rounding out reasons relationships wreck us” emphasis in 2023, and as a piece of...

7. Deprived Needs, the SUB-C, Self-sabotage and Psychosomatic Illness

Oct 13, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, NonViolent Communication, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

So we love to deprive ourselves "for goodness" - but what happens when your subconscious has enough? Today, talking...

BONUS Breaking the spell of feeling “neglected, ignored, and rejected” – Naming your real feelings and needs

Oct 7, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, NonViolent Communication, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

The title says it all? We learned that "projected, false, judgmental" emotional words are a big part of our...

8.5 “Our Changing Perspective” | Words by your MF Incanthatus!

Jun 25, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, MF Speaks, Patron Season 08, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

Love this system. You know our friend and reigning community leader, Incanthatus? Well buckle up, because they're...

7.15 CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVES

Apr 24, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective

Let's get less bleak. What can you DO about perspectives that might not be fitting your authentic experiences or...

7.14 Your GENERATIONALLY Traumatized Perspective | Research Deepens

Apr 17, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Research, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

Let's call this one a "slow burn that builds." The filial piety mosquitos are worth the full listen. Moving from...

7.13 Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective Pt. 3 | Discussion

Apr 9, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

Let's chat more about the often subtle, flippant, and hidden social influences that automatically build up to become a...

7.12 Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective Pt. 2 | Research

Apr 3, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Research, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

If we can take on traumatized perspectives through secondhand exposure and other people's words... what chance does a...

7.11 Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective Pt 1 | Intro

Mar 26, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

A tale of two children, and two different lifelong perspectives. How is this "traumatized perspective" problem a lot...

11. Fawning, anxious attachment, and abuse.

Jan 6, 2022 | Blog, Education, Fawning, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, RECOVERY, Transcripts

Yo - time to talk about the survival F we all ignore in word form. This is the blog transcript of the podcast episode...

10. Family of origin & brain patterning

Jan 6, 2022 | Blog, Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, RECOVERY, Transcripts

Here's the visual version of the podcast episode of the same number and name! It's part of a "let's catch up on...

1.10. Family of Origin & Yer Brain Programming

Dec 31, 2021 | Our Complex Trauma Learnings So Far, Public Content, Public Podcast, Public Season 01, Series

Here's a holiday release for ya. Merry whatever-you-do, and let's talk about families fuckin things up.  ...

1.8. Losing Control of Your brain: Triggers, Spirals, Addiction, Self-harm, Bad Habits

Dec 16, 2021 | Blog, Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, Public Season 01, RECOVERY, Transcripts

So this probably doesn’t need to be said again by now, but trauma’s most devastating effect is probably feeling like...

1.8. Losing Control of Your Brain: Triggers, Spirals, Addiction, Self-harm, Bad Habits

Dec 16, 2021 | Our Complex Trauma Learnings So Far, Public Content, Public Podcast, Public Season 01, Series

What's the difference between your past high-functionality and current fears of "losing your fucking mind"? Bad...

6.11 Reprogramming “Attachment Styles”

Nov 2, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Family Brain Hijinx, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 06, Seasons, Subscriber Content

We know, we know.... Anxious or avoidant, early learning calls all the shots. Or does it? Is attachment style a...