Posts Tagged "fawning"

Filial Obligation Revisited pt 1: Upsetting Eastern Perspectives

Jan 20, 2024 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Subscriber Content

The crossover between VulNarcs and FilOb is considerable. Hell, parental duty is how many of us get acquainted with...

Revitalized Discussion Fawning X Unmet Needs

Nov 17, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Subscriber Content

In 2021 the word of the year was Fawning. Today, let's revisit those discussions while layering on our...

Concept Introduction: Coercion, control tactics, abuse programming, and family need enmeshment

Oct 14, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Subscriber Content

How do deprived and "unallowed" needs connect with our accrual of CPTSD and abuse-acceptance? Let's talk about our...

8.28 Bitesized WRAP on Filial Obligation

Aug 22, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Filial Obligation and Entrapment, Git Educated | Intermediate, Obligated Relationships, Patron Season 08, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Might be episode overkill, but I think we learned a lot. Let's pull all the academic and community-experiential...

8.27 CMNTY Co-LAB Filial Obligation II

Aug 20, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Filial Obligation and Entrapment, Git Educated | Intermediate, MF Speaks, Patron Season 08, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Originally published in September, moved for conversation cohesiveness. Y'all still had more to say and I love it....

8.26 CMNTY CoLAB | Filial Obligation, Entrapment, and Suicidal ideation

Aug 20, 2022 | Filial Obligation and Entrapment, Git Educated | Intermediate, MF Speaks, Obligated Relationships, Patron Season 08, Seasons, Subscriber Content

What've other MFs got to say? Let's hear about personal experiences and ongoing challenges with filial caregiving,...

Filial Obligation & Anxiety… In All Yer Shit Relationships

Aug 8, 2022 | Blog, Education, Filial Obligation and Entrapment, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Obligated Relationships, Public Blog, RECOVERY

Hey motherfuckers. Let’s jump into a topic that many of us feel, but probably few of us allow ourselves to put into...

8.23 {TW} Entrapment/Defeat, Negative Self-Appraisal, and Suicidality | Obligated Relationships Pt. II

Aug 5, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Filial Obligation and Entrapment, Git Educated | Intermediate, Obligated Relationships, Patron Season 08, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Feel stuck? Getting hopeless? This conversation applies to all conversations! IF you're feeling obligated to someone...

8.21 Caregiving Anxiety and Obligation in Relationships | Pt I. Origins

Jul 30, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Filial Obligation and Entrapment, Git Educated | Intermediate, Obligated Relationships, Patron Season 08, Research, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Transcripts

Is relationship drain and strain your recurrent pattern? Exhausted, exasperated, and anxious all the time? How much of...

Life on Abuse | Achievement Addict

Jul 20, 2022 | Blog, Fix Your Trauma Mindset, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog

See you in the Fort. Cheers Fuckers! Brains develop cellular connections based on reinforcement and punishment. When a...

7.23 Recovery vs. Relationships | The Recovery Resource We Lack is Time

Jun 4, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content

So everything is hell in my world. How about yours? Coming to you live from a crusty hotel room, sortof sick, and...

11. Fawning, anxious attachment, and abuse.

Jan 6, 2022 | Blog, Education, Fawning, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, RECOVERY, Transcripts

Yo - time to talk about the survival F we all ignore in word form. This is the blog transcript of the podcast episode...

6.27 Fawning and Free-Will | 2021 Reflection

Jan 6, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 06, Seasons, Subscriber Content

So how DO we actually determine who we are and what we want to accomplish? If my past year's observations are right......

10. Family of origin & brain patterning

Jan 6, 2022 | Blog, Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, RECOVERY, Transcripts

Here's the visual version of the podcast episode of the same number and name! It's part of a "let's catch up on...

1.10. Family of Origin & Yer Brain Programming

Dec 31, 2021 | Our Complex Trauma Learnings So Far, Public Content, Public Podcast, Public Season 01, Series

Here's a holiday release for ya. Merry whatever-you-do, and let's talk about families fuckin things up.  ...

5.37 Shit Relationships Part I

Aug 18, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content

So we allllll wonder, "Why do I end up with people who abuse me and relationships that sink me?" Answer: How long've...