Posts Tagged "gaslighting"

Abuse Acronyms to Know: DARVO & SAPIEN

Dec 15, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Can't wrap a year on relationships without talking abuse tactics. Let's discuss DARVO and SAPIEN - strategies to be...

8.5 “Our Changing Perspective” | Words by your MF Incanthatus!

Jun 25, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, MF Speaks, Patron Season 08, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

Love this system. You know our friend and reigning community leader, Incanthatus? Well buckle up, because they're...

7.15 CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVES

Apr 24, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective

Let's get less bleak. What can you DO about perspectives that might not be fitting your authentic experiences or...

7.14 Your GENERATIONALLY Traumatized Perspective | Research Deepens

Apr 17, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Research, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

Let's call this one a "slow burn that builds." The filial piety mosquitos are worth the full listen. Moving from...

7.13 Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective Pt. 3 | Discussion

Apr 9, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

Let's chat more about the often subtle, flippant, and hidden social influences that automatically build up to become a...

7.12 Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective Pt. 2 | Research

Apr 3, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Research, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

If we can take on traumatized perspectives through secondhand exposure and other people's words... what chance does a...

7.11 Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective Pt 1 | Intro

Mar 26, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

A tale of two children, and two different lifelong perspectives. How is this "traumatized perspective" problem a lot...

Perspective Exercise Worksheet

Mar 20, 2022 | Exercises, Git Changing | Advanced, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Transcripts, Workbooks, Yer Traumatized Perspective

Here you go!  Here's the supplemental transcript/exercise detail from the Yer Traumatized Perspective Pt. 4...

7.9 Yer Traumatized Perspective Pt. 4 | Exercises

Mar 19, 2022 | Exercises, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective

So... how do you know if your perspective is the right one for you? If you're operating on old or inaccurate...

Transcript: Traumatized Perspective Pt. 3

Mar 13, 2022 | Git Changing | Advanced, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Transcripts, Yer Traumatized Perspective

Here's the wordy version of the most recent post, in case it helps you to follow along!  Been having a hard time...

7.8 Your Traumatized Perspective Pt. 3 | Implications

Mar 13, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective

So now we know what contributes to a "PTSD Perspective"... and it's not exactly what you might think. What else can we...

7.7 Your Traumatized Perspective Pt 2 | Research

Mar 6, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Research, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective

So let's dig in. IS there a "right time to be traumatized?" Or are there about a billion individual factors that build...

7.6 “Your Traumatized Perspective” Pt.1 | Hypocrisy and Re-definition

Feb 27, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective

"That's just ONE perspective," they say. As though it could work any other way when you're one organism with one...

Secrets

Nov 29, 2020 | Blog, Member Posts, MF Speaks, Public Blog

Che Doanya - outside the lines So afraid to admit itSo ashamed you could see itAll the scars that you can't hideNeed...

✭✭ 2.5 Relatable | Was it really “Trauma?”

Jul 27, 2020 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful - 2 Stars, Patron Season 02, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful

"Or am I just sensitive?" It's hard to know, when our culture has reduced "PTSD" to mean "Soldiers' disease." Oh, and...