Posts Tagged "parts"

“What do I owe this decrepit asshole?” by Dominic | FilOb Community Feedback

Feb 16, 2024 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Filial Obligation and Entrapment, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

After all these academic approaches to the debate of Filial Obligation, let's hear from a RL MF on his philosophy and...

Sex vs. Parts, Programs, and Expectations | Sex on CPTSD pt I

Dec 23, 2023 | CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Content, Public Podcast, Public Season 03, Seasons, Series

HEY MOTHERFUCKER.  HO, HO, HO, you’re getting some extra shows this month. The spirit has overtaken me.  By...

BONUS ED: Sex on CPTSD pt II

Dec 13, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Transcripts

BONUS EDITION: Find extra content in this version. Well hello and welcome to a surprise show, for all of us. The world...

Sex on CPTSD pt II

Dec 13, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Subscriber Content

The world didn't end after the last post and I have more to say. Let's talk about identifying if your sexual life is...

Sex, parts, programming, and needs

Dec 9, 2023 | CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Transcripts

So, Fuckers. We’re “wrapping up” relationships as we round out 2023.  Which isn't really true, because CPTSD is so...

Sex, parts, programming, and needs

Dec 8, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

We've talked about intimacy... but not *intimacy.* Diving into sex, let's talk about childhood and adult programming...

3.11. Ten Destructive Responses that Set Off Trauma Defenses

Nov 3, 2023 | Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, NonViolent Communication, Public Blog, Public Content, Public Season 03, Research, Seasons

My Fuckers. Hey there.  Thanks for stopping by and listening to my Spotify for Podcasters ad (assuming that’s...

NVC shame, parts, and major points with Shelby | MFs Speak!

Oct 20, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, MFs Speak!, NonViolent Communication, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

Today let's take a relcalibration break to hear the other major points hidden in NonViolent Communication. Straight...

BONUS! NVC x IFS Conceptual Overlap

Sep 25, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, NonViolent Communication, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

When does an unmet need become a "burden"? What does conflict signify? What's the answer to resolving interpersonal...

BONUS! NVC x IFS Conceptual Overlap

Sep 25, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, NonViolent Communication, Patron Season 11, Series, Subscriber Content, Transcripts

Hey y’all!  Welcome to another bonus episode and thank you so much for supporting the project to this degree....

10.51 Assessing potential partner’s “parts” through their social systems

Jul 21, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

We internalize the external systems we have to engage with, structuring our brains to be similar (or counteractively...

10.49 Somatic understanding of “Parts” in others… before you commit to a shitlationship

Jul 14, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

We can’t predict what the future will hold or rigidly mentalize about other people’s brains, but we CAN be real with...

10.45 Worthlessness wounds, Burden parts, and self-slaying Punishers with Leanne | MFs Speak!

Jun 30, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, MF Speaks, MF Stories, MFs Speak!, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

It’s a double dose of recordings by Leanne and commentary by this MF! Today, we’ll talk about the core wound of...

10.43 BONUS Disclosure followthrough: behind the scenes in traumarific times

Jun 23, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

I got terrible at something in the past year or so; relational self-disclosure and expression. For protective reasons....

10.42 Dominic’s filial obligation to misery-spreading father parts | MFs Speak!

Jun 23, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Filial Obligation and Entrapment, Git Educated | Intermediate, MF Speaks, MF Stories, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

Today we hear from a first-time recorder, Dominic, about his lifetime of paternal abuse and filial obligation. Asking...

Workbook-transcript! Why “healthy communication and expectation” doesn’t exist: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT 2

Jun 20, 2023 | Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Transcripts, Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Trust, Workbooks, YOUR Parts in Relationship

Back again to give it all away! Here's the illustrated transcript-summary-reflection question mashup for this week's...