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Sex vs. Parts, Programs, and Expectations | Sex on CPTSD pt I

Sex vs. Parts, Programs, and Expectations | Sex on CPTSD pt I

This podcast episode explores the complex relationship between trauma, CPTSD, and sexuality. It discusses how childhood narratives, early experiences, and adult adaptations can create conflicting internal “parts” that influence sexual behavior and attitudes. The episode introduces the concept of examining sexual dysfunction through the lens of Internal Family Systems, encouraging listeners to understand their sexual history and patterns for better integration and healing.

3.12a. Transference, Projection, Monkey-barring, Displacement

3.12a. Transference, Projection, Monkey-barring, Displacement

This podcast episode explores various forms of transference in relationships and mental health, including projection, monkey-barring, and displacement. It discusses how these cognitive patterns can affect interpersonal dynamics and therapy outcomes. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and critical thinking in recognizing and addressing these patterns for improved emotional intelligence and relationship health.

3.11. Ten Destructive Responses that Set Off Trauma Defenses

3.11. Ten Destructive Responses that Set Off Trauma Defenses

This podcast episode explores ten destructive responses to avoid in sensitive conversations, based on NonViolent Communication principles. It discusses why people use these responses and their impact on relationships. The episode provides insights into improving communication skills, especially during stressful holiday interactions with family. It emphasizes the importance of empathy, active listening, and self-awareness in fostering healthier interpersonal dynamics.

3.9b Ending Deprivation and Rehabbing yer Brain with NonViolent Communication

3.9b Ending Deprivation and Rehabbing yer Brain with NonViolent Communication

This podcast episode explores how NonViolent Communication (NVC) can be used as a tool for trauma recovery and personal growth. It discusses challenging toxic beliefs, identifying unmet needs, and the impact of self-neglect on mental health. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and fulfilling personal needs as key components in breaking cycles of trauma and depression.

3.9a NonViolent (Effective) Communication

3.9a NonViolent (Effective) Communication

This podcast episode explores NonViolent Communication (NVC) as a framework for effective communication in relationships and personal growth. It breaks down the four steps of NVC: separating observations from evaluations, identifying and owning feelings, recognizing underlying needs, and making requests. The episode discusses how this approach can help individuals with trauma histories improve their communication skills and understand their emotions and needs better.

3.2. Healing self-contradicting brains with Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy

3.2. Healing self-contradicting brains with Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy

Explore Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy as a framework for understanding and healing complex trauma. Learn about the different types of internal parts, their roles, and interactions within the psyche. Discover how IFS can help address contradictory brain patterns, self-destructive behaviors, and feelings of being stuck. Gain insights into the healing process through self-understanding and acceptance, guided by the concept of the “Self” in IFS therapy.

2.11. Forming new lives | AKA – reintegration efforts for lasting change

2.11. Forming new lives | AKA – reintegration efforts for lasting change

Explore the integration phase of trauma recovery, focusing on both internal and external processes. Learn about reconnecting with your body, managing anxiety, processing emotions, and integrating fragmented memories. Discover strategies for making behavioral changes, restructuring your environment, and overcoming fear to support long-term healing. Understand the importance of balancing inner work with external life changes for comprehensive trauma recovery.

2.10. The resources needed for brain recovery | AKA – mediums for new perspectives

2.10. The resources needed for brain recovery | AKA – mediums for new perspectives

Explore the essential resources needed for trauma brain recovery: time, space, and energy. Learn about the challenges of modern life in creating these resources and discover strategies for prioritizing self-care and setting boundaries. Understand the importance of restructuring daily life to support brain healing and cognitive restructuring. Gain insights into planning for long-term changes to support ongoing trauma recovery.

2.9. Loss of functionality | AKA – overcompensation, collapse, resisilence v. resistence

2.9. Loss of functionality | AKA – overcompensation, collapse, resisilence v. resistence

Explore the concept of loss of functionality in complex trauma recovery. Learn about personality parts, symptom masking, and the impact of trauma on executive functioning. Understand post-traumatic collapse and the importance of resilience in recovery. Discover strategies for managing symptoms and overcoming self-judgment during the healing process.

2.8. Internal battles | AKA – healing your disintegrated brain

2.8. Internal battles | AKA – healing your disintegrated brain

Explore the concept of parts work in complex trauma recovery. Learn about fragmented personalities, how trauma impacts self-integration, and the importance of addressing these parts for healing. Understand the challenges of internal conflicts and self-limiting behaviors in CPTSD. Discover resources for understanding and working with parts to achieve a more integrated self and improved functionality in daily life.

2.7. Self-limiting modes of existence | AKA – life halting programs and parts battles

2.7. Self-limiting modes of existence | AKA – life halting programs and parts battles

Explore the concept of self-limitation in complex trauma recovery. Learn about the various forms of self-limiting patterns, including beliefs, thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and structures. Understand how trauma impacts personality fragmentation and creates self-limiting modes of existence. Discover strategies for overcoming these limitations and integrating fragmented parts of the self for holistic healing.

2.6. Default Mode Network(DMN) | AKA – memory throwbacks, bodily disconnection, and sub-sensory fear

2.6. Default Mode Network(DMN) | AKA – memory throwbacks, bodily disconnection, and sub-sensory fear

Explore the neurological basis of PTSD through the Default Mode Network (DMN). Learn how trauma affects memory systems, fear responses, and self-awareness. Understand the impact of DMN dysfunction on daily life for trauma survivors, including hypervigilance and disassociation. Gain insights into the challenges of trauma recovery and the neurological mechanisms behind persistent fear responses.

2.5. Entrapment, defeat, suicidality, and relationships | AKA – it’s not worth your whole life

2.5. Entrapment, defeat, suicidality, and relationships | AKA – it’s not worth your whole life

Explore the concept of entrapment in relationships and its impact on trauma recovery. Learn about the challenges of leaving toxic relationships, dealing with self-doubt, and the potential link between entrapment and suicidal thoughts. Discover strategies for setting boundaries, changing relationship dynamics, and recognizing when it’s time to end a relationship. Gain insights into building self-capacity and autonomy after trauma.

2.3. “Perspective” | AKA – gaslighting, cognitive self-corruption, time distortions

2.3. “Perspective” | AKA – gaslighting, cognitive self-corruption, time distortions

Explore the role of perspective in trauma recovery and mental health. Learn how childhood experiences shape our perceptions and perspectives, and how these influence our adult lives. Understand the impact of family dynamics on perspective formation and the challenges of gaslighting. Discover strategies for self-validation and reframing trauma-related perspectives for healing and personal growth.

2.2. Retraumatization, backslides, and non-linear progress | AKA – current cult.ural triggerings

2.2. Retraumatization, backslides, and non-linear progress | AKA – current cult.ural triggerings

Explore the challenges of trauma recovery during turbulent times. Learn about the non-linear nature of healing, including retraumatization and recovery setbacks. Understand the stages of trauma recovery and how societal issues can trigger CPTSD symptoms. Discover strategies for self-compassion and stabilization in the face of collective trauma.

2.1. “Not bad enough to be trauma” | AKA – the aftermath is what matters

2.1. “Not bad enough to be trauma” | AKA – the aftermath is what matters

Explore the challenges of trauma recovery during turbulent times. Learn about the non-linear nature of healing, including retraumatization and recovery setbacks. Understand the stages of trauma recovery and how societal issues can trigger CPTSD symptoms. Discover strategies for self-compassion and stabilization in the face of collective trauma.