Research Archives - Traumatized Motherfuckers

REALITY TESTING (con’t of Type I and II Processing)

Jun 2, 2024 | Narcs, Abuse, Safety, Next Evolution, Patron Season 12, Research, Research Redux 2024, Seasons, self (with a small s)

Picking up from our discussion of intellectualizing, rationalizing, narcs, and processing styles, let's talk about...

The Dangers of Intellectualization and Rationalization pt 2 | Video+Transcript

May 13, 2024 | Subscriber Content, Bonus Video, Git Changing | Advanced, Narc Recovery, Narcs, Abuse, Safety, Patron Season 12, Research, Research Redux 2024, Seasons, self (with a small s), Transcripts

We have returned, for personality disorder x defense mechanisms Pt II. The major finding of our last show was…...

The Dangers of Intellectualization and Rationalization pt I | Video+Transcript

May 8, 2024 | Subscriber Content, Bonus Video, Git Changing | Advanced, Narc Recovery, Patron Season 12, Refind & Empower yer Self, Research, Research Redux 2024, Seasons, self (with a small s), Transcripts

Transcript: This is a section that got left out of our last big research episode on Disintegrated, integrity-lacking,...

The Dangers of Intellectualization and Rationalization pt I

May 8, 2024 | Bonus Video, Git Changing | Advanced, Narc Recovery, Patron Season 12, Refind & Empower yer Self, Research, Research Redux 2024, Seasons, self (with a small s), Subscriber Content, Transcripts

References: Caligor E: Narcissism in the Psychodynamic Diagnostic Manual. In Ogrodniczuk, J: Treating Pathological...

Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt I

Apr 12, 2024 | Patron Season 12, Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Narcs, Abuse, Safety, Research, Research Redux 2024, Seasons, self (with a small s), Subscriber Content

There is NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION, and these fuckers use relationships as stand-ins for doing the work.

Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt I | Video+Transcript

Apr 12, 2024 | Git Changing | Advanced, Narcs, Abuse, Safety, Patron Season 12, Research, Research Redux 2024, Seasons, self (with a small s), Series, Subscriber Content, Transcripts

Transcript Hey Fuckers! Anyone else had an intense couple of weeks? Between the three jobs I’m working, the family...

Video version? Parent-Child Ambivalence, Guilt, and Care Perception | Extra Research

Feb 22, 2024 | Patron Season 12, Bonus Video, Git Changing | Advanced, Research, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Why would you want to watch my face read? IDK, but I've been told I *should* do this. So I finally gave it a...

Transcript | VulNarcs and Past Negative Time Orientation; Using Time, Space, Energy for Growth or Narcissism

Jan 12, 2024 | Subscriber Content, Git Changing | Advanced, Narc Recovery, Patron Season 12, RECOVERY, Research, Seasons, Series, Time Distortions, Transcripts

So, I hope you listened to that little introduction to 2024 that I just released. As I told you, I’m…. quitting this...

3.11. Ten Destructive Responses that Set Off Trauma Defenses

Nov 3, 2023 | Public Content, Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, NonViolent Communication, Public Blog, Public Season 03, Research, Seasons

This podcast episode explores ten destructive responses to avoid in sensitive conversations, based on NonViolent Communication principles. It discusses why people use these responses and their impact on relationships. The episode provides insights into improving communication skills, especially during stressful holiday interactions with family. It emphasizes the importance of empathy, active listening, and self-awareness in fostering healthier interpersonal dynamics.