Time to talk about deprivation driving our shitty emotions and the surprising complex world of requests vs. demands....
Posts in Category "Seasons"
Workbook+Videos! 2. Effective (NonViolent) Communication Steps 1-2
Key points: NonViolent Communication consists of 4 steps: 1) separate observations from evaluations2) identify and...
2. Effective (NonViolent) Communication Steps 1-2
Last time we learned the basic 4 steps of NVC - now let's get into the full conversation. Tiny neurolinguistic details...
Video+Transcript! Intro to Nonviolent Communication | Conceptual Re-education
My whiteboard and face are back after needing a self-care break! Let's run through the 4 steps of NVC, in preparation...
3.8b Shitpologies (AKA non-apology apologies)
This podcast episode explores the concept of non-apology apologies and their impact on relationships. It discusses various types of ineffective apologies, such as “I’m sorry if,” “I’m sorry, you know I,” “I’m sorry but,” and “I’m sorry you.” The episode emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility, acknowledging the other person’s experience, and offering genuine amendments for repairing relationships. It also touches on the upcoming topic of nonviolent communication as a more effective way to handle conflicts and maintain healthy relationships.
1. Intro to Nonviolent Communication | Conceptual Re-education before the Deets
Why is "humaning" so hard? Well it doesn't help that roughly none of us know how to speak to each other without...
Rerelease | Learning to Live with CPTSD | Archie As A Metaphor
WTF Mates! Patreon didn't publish on the 25th. Have this one "late" and sorry about that Fuckers! See you tomorrow in...
Rerelease | Learning to Live on CPTSD | Archie As a Metaphor
Motivational figure, wealth of joy, and dedicated learner despite everything that was against him. For a lot more on...
BONUS No “right to safety” in the Family of Origin | When they say the quiet part out loud
Ever have your family members directly state your core CPTSD wounds aloud, with no idea what they're saying? I have....
BONUS Recording from home | “Sibling Rivalry” masking unfulfilled needs
So let's say I don't have "the best relationship" with my eldest brother. For years, this has been written off by...
BONUS Recording from home | Family recontact reflections
Warning of lesser sound quality! How bout a headphone-recorded off the cuff episode, reflecting on the utility and...
BONUS Recording from Home | Shared parts and projected conflict between siblings
My brothers and I have some relatively unexamined trauma between us... until recent years. Here's what I'm finding...
BONUS Intro to Recording from Home / FOO Recontact
Welp, if you've followed along with the show, you know where I've been with "family relationships." Increasingly NC...
Rewiring your deepest wounds with conflict resolution
Welllll… we’re at it again. Having more “drive the point home” thoughts after reflecting on what was recently said....
Rewiring your deepest wounds with conflict resolution
What if relational conflict was the answer to healing self-destructive thoughts and harmful lifelong narratives?
3.8a The Key to Healing Relational Ruptures (and two people)
My Fuckers. Hello. It feels like it’s been a while and I hope life hasn’t been railing you too hard in the interim....