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3.8b Shitpologies (AKA non-apology apologies)
This podcast episode explores the concept of non-apology apologies and their impact on relationships. It discusses various types of ineffective apologies, such as “I’m sorry if,” “I’m sorry, you know I,” “I’m sorry but,” and “I’m sorry you.” The episode emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility, acknowledging the other person’s experience, and offering genuine amendments for repairing relationships. It also touches on the upcoming topic of nonviolent communication as a more effective way to handle conflicts and maintain healthy relationships.
Rewiring your deepest wounds with conflict resolution
Welllll… we’re at it again. Having more “drive the point home” thoughts after reflecting on what was recently said....
Workbook! Relational rupture, without repair | The real problem in our relationships
Notes: We human animals focus on "conflict avoidance" as the measure of a good relationship - but conflict is...
Relational rupture, without repair | The crux of our relational issues
Turns out, relational rupture will always take place to some extent. But what really matters is repairing the...
Extra Fs to give in Relationships
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3.7. Determining “Are they a good relational partner?” before committing
SO, if you’ve been listening along to all this relational talk for the past few months, you may have been thinking:...
Workbook! Extra F’s to give in relationships
Notes: We react with "survival Fs" when we sense our safety is in question. I propose there are at least 2 additional...
Why “healthy communication and expectation” doesn’t exist: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT 2 | Video+Workbook
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This podcast episode explores the complexities of relationships and how our inner worlds affect our interactions with partners. It discusses how unresolved traumas and protective behaviors can influence relationship dynamics, often unconsciously. The episode examines different internal ‘parts’ – such as exiles, managers, and protectors – and how they manifest in partnerships. It touches on common communication challenges and the patterns that emerge when different internal parts interact. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and healing in fostering healthier relationships. While not offering definitive solutions, this episode provides a framework for understanding some of the psychological underpinnings of relationship difficulties and the potential for growth through self-reflection.
3.6b Overcoming spiraling conflicts in trauma-impacted relationships
You know the deal... This is the transcript of the bitesized"summary" episode by the same name!Listen to it free,...
10.40 Why “healthy communication and expectation” doesn’t exist: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT 2
How do we approach relationships alllll wrong? What are we really doing with our chosen partners and reptitive...
3.6 Lost love and authentic connection; the fragmented explanation
This is the transcript version of the podcast of the same name! Find it wherever you listen, just search "traumatized...
Transcript-Workbook for Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I
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10.39 Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I
What's the basis for our initial deep connections? And where does that get lost along the way? Locking both partners...
10.36 VIT: Kyle and learning to receive kindness through internal work | MFs Speak!
GIVING VIT is hard enough... but how about receiving it? What happens when your parts don't know how to accept...
Lessons in relational danger: “When the perp is your savior” by Leanne
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