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self-Defense Notes & Article Excerpts SO FAR

self-Defense Notes & Article Excerpts SO FAR

Jul 4, 2024 | , , , , , ,

This comprehensive overview of defense mechanisms provides valuable insights into psychological coping strategies and their impact on trauma recovery. By understanding the hierarchy of defenses, from immature to mature, individuals and therapists can better identify and address maladaptive coping mechanisms. The focus on action defenses and major image distortions offers a deeper understanding of how these psychological processes can affect mental health and interpersonal relationships. Recognizing these patterns is crucial for developing more adaptive coping strategies and fostering emotional resilience in trauma recovery.

Bonus Video! Narcs showing their ASS [Abuse-Supporting Stupidity]

Bonus Video! Narcs showing their ASS [Abuse-Supporting Stupidity]

Jul 3, 2024 | , , , , , , ,

This episode explores the concept of “abuse-supporting stupidity” in narcissistic behavior patterns. It highlights how narcissists often engage in self-sabotaging behaviors due to their reliance on immature defense mechanisms and lack of self-reflection. The discussion emphasizes that abusers unintentionally create a disintegrated psychological environment, affecting both themselves and their victims. Understanding this process can help survivors make sense of their experiences and reduce self-blame for staying in abusive relationships. Recognizing these patterns is crucial for healing and breaking the cycle of abuse.

Bonus Video! Narcs showing their ASS [Abuse-Supporting Stupidity]

Mindfulness/Meta-Cog Notes! Slides and PP

Jun 25, 2024 | , , , ,

This comprehensive slide deck exploration of mindfulness, metacognition, and traumatic training offers valuable insights for trauma recovery. By understanding how our past experiences shape our automatic responses, we can begin to rewire maladaptive behaviors. Mindfulness and metacognition serve as powerful tools for neutral self-observation, allowing us to question ingrained beliefs and make conscious decisions aligned with our present reality. The concept of “traumatic training” helps explain how childhood experiences can lead to lifelong patterns, while also offering hope for change through mindful awareness and intentional behavioral recalibration.

Sex vs. Parts, Programs, and Expectations | Sex on CPTSD pt I

Sex vs. Parts, Programs, and Expectations | Sex on CPTSD pt I

Dec 23, 2023 | , , , , , , ,

This podcast episode explores the complex relationship between trauma, CPTSD, and sexuality. It discusses how childhood narratives, early experiences, and adult adaptations can create conflicting internal “parts” that influence sexual behavior and attitudes. The episode introduces the concept of examining sexual dysfunction through the lens of Internal Family Systems, encouraging listeners to understand their sexual history and patterns for better integration and healing.

3.12a. Transference, Projection, Monkey-barring, Displacement

3.12a. Transference, Projection, Monkey-barring, Displacement

Dec 11, 2023 | , , , , , , ,

This podcast episode explores various forms of transference in relationships and mental health, including projection, monkey-barring, and displacement. It discusses how these cognitive patterns can affect interpersonal dynamics and therapy outcomes. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and critical thinking in recognizing and addressing these patterns for improved emotional intelligence and relationship health.

3.11. Ten Destructive Responses that Set Off Trauma Defenses

3.11. Ten Destructive Responses that Set Off Trauma Defenses

Nov 3, 2023 | , , , , , , ,

This podcast episode explores ten destructive responses to avoid in sensitive conversations, based on NonViolent Communication principles. It discusses why people use these responses and their impact on relationships. The episode provides insights into improving communication skills, especially during stressful holiday interactions with family. It emphasizes the importance of empathy, active listening, and self-awareness in fostering healthier interpersonal dynamics.