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Workbook+Videos! 3. Effective (NonViolent) Communication Steps 3-4
Key Points: 4-step process: Separate your observations from your evaluations. Explore, identify, and take ownership of...
3.9a NonViolent (Effective) Communication
This podcast episode explores NonViolent Communication (NVC) as a framework for effective communication in relationships and personal growth. It breaks down the four steps of NVC: separating observations from evaluations, identifying and owning feelings, recognizing underlying needs, and making requests. The episode discusses how this approach can help individuals with trauma histories improve their communication skills and understand their emotions and needs better.
3. Effective (NonViolent) Communication Steps 3-4
Time to talk about deprivation driving our shitty emotions and the surprising complex world of requests vs. demands....
Workbook+Videos! 2. Effective (NonViolent) Communication Steps 1-2
Key points: NonViolent Communication consists of 4 steps: 1) separate observations from evaluations2) identify and...
2. Effective (NonViolent) Communication Steps 1-2
Last time we learned the basic 4 steps of NVC - now let's get into the full conversation. Tiny neurolinguistic details...
Video+Transcript! Intro to Nonviolent Communication | Conceptual Re-education
My whiteboard and face are back after needing a self-care break! Let's run through the 4 steps of NVC, in preparation...
3.8b Shitpologies (AKA non-apology apologies)
This podcast episode explores the concept of non-apology apologies and their impact on relationships. It discusses various types of ineffective apologies, such as “I’m sorry if,” “I’m sorry, you know I,” “I’m sorry but,” and “I’m sorry you.” The episode emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility, acknowledging the other person’s experience, and offering genuine amendments for repairing relationships. It also touches on the upcoming topic of nonviolent communication as a more effective way to handle conflicts and maintain healthy relationships.
1. Intro to Nonviolent Communication | Conceptual Re-education before the Deets
Why is "humaning" so hard? Well it doesn't help that roughly none of us know how to speak to each other without...
10.44 A to your Q: Stunting F responses in relationships
Ya asked, I didn't want to forget to answer. How do we "get over" fight/flight in conflict so we can master Intimacy...
10.43 BONUS Disclosure followthrough: behind the scenes in traumarific times
I got terrible at something in the past year or so; relational self-disclosure and expression. For protective reasons....
Community Discussion! What tools have helped you stay committed to hard conversations and relations?
This month we talked about the U-Turn to Re-turn and several other methods to help us communicate more honestly / less...
Why “healthy communication and expectation” doesn’t exist: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT 2 | Video+Workbook
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This podcast episode explores the complexities of relationships and how our inner worlds affect our interactions with partners. It discusses how unresolved traumas and protective behaviors can influence relationship dynamics, often unconsciously. The episode examines different internal ‘parts’ – such as exiles, managers, and protectors – and how they manifest in partnerships. It touches on common communication challenges and the patterns that emerge when different internal parts interact. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and healing in fostering healthier relationships. While not offering definitive solutions, this episode provides a framework for understanding some of the psychological underpinnings of relationship difficulties and the potential for growth through self-reflection.
Final VIT video release! Healing communication issues between parts in partners – pt 3
You got it, the tiny rundown on episode #3 of the month! Here's the short and skinny on healing relationships...
VIT videos videos videos! A month in review pt I
We covered A LOT this month - so here's the full rundown in doodles! Each short corresponds to an episode on the...
Workbook-transcript! Healing hellish communication and re-instating authentic love | Parts on Parts violence between partners PT 3
Here's ya major points, rough transcript, doodleys, and reflection Qs for the week's episode! Download below. Hope it...