The question that fucks with us all, on both ends of the relationship dynamic. How do we define "abuse"? And how can...
Posts Tagged "emotional abuse"
Bonus Video! Narcs showing their ASS [Abuse-Supporting Stupidity]
This episode explores the concept of “abuse-supporting stupidity” in narcissistic behavior patterns. It highlights how narcissists often engage in self-sabotaging behaviors due to their reliance on immature defense mechanisms and lack of self-reflection. The discussion emphasizes that abusers unintentionally create a disintegrated psychological environment, affecting both themselves and their victims. Understanding this process can help survivors make sense of their experiences and reduce self-blame for staying in abusive relationships. Recognizing these patterns is crucial for healing and breaking the cycle of abuse.
Abuse Acronyms: DARVO and SAPIEN
Helllooooo Fuckers! As part of our “rounding out reasons relationships wreck us” emphasis in 2023, and as a piece of...
BONUS No “right to safety” in the Family of Origin | When they say the quiet part out loud
Ever have your family members directly state your core CPTSD wounds aloud, with no idea what they're saying? I have....
Lessons in relational danger: “When the perp is your savior” by Leanne
This is the transcript of the recent release of the same name! For more episodes like these, from MFs like you, join...
VIT: When the perp is your savior by Leanne | MFs Speak!
We all probably realized it: our VIT issues generally start with the FOO (family of origin). But can you remember the...
1.11. Fawning, Anxious Attachment, and Enmeshment
Explore the concept of fawning in Complex PTSD and its impact on relationships and self-worth. Learn about the characteristics of fawning behavior, its connection to anxious attachment, and how it originates in family dynamics. Understand the societal expectations that reinforce fawning and discover the importance of developing healthy boundaries in trauma recovery.
1.10. Family of origin & brain patterning
Here's a holiday release for ya, part of a "let's catch up on knowledge" miniseries on what we know about CPTSD so...
Homelessness > Abuse | When Your Self Says “No More.”
Life calls. So, let's talk a personally-based mashup of dissociation under abuse, depersonalization, and being...
✭✭✭✭ 5.19 Family Brain Hijinks (Pt III of Brain Patterning Series)
This episode explores the intricate relationship between family dynamics, neural networks, and generational trauma. It delves into how early childhood experiences shape our brain patterns and influence our adult relationships. The discussion covers mental abuse tactics, the challenges of maintaining boundaries with toxic family members, and the potential benefits of limiting or cutting contact. Understanding these mechanisms can help individuals recognize unhealthy patterns and make informed decisions about their family relationships in the context of trauma recovery.
BS | Fuck Off Boomers; The Covert Narc Echo Chamber
Ready to rethink how you think about your trauma life? Because this is just the bite-sized summary of a much longer...
Fuck Off Boomers; The Covert Narc Echo Chamber
Looking a bit long for the casual read? Yeah, this is the transcript to a whole podcast... and I'm thorough. Luckily,...
4.28 Fuck Off Boomers; The Covert Narc Echo Chamber
Why do so many of our parents have the same unfortunate covert abuse tactics in their front pocket? Why did we grow up...
✭✭ 4.27 Parent Narcissists and CPTSD
Last time we learned about a new type of Narc; the "Covert" variety… who sound an awful lot like our mothers,...
Bite Sized | Raised by Narcissists
Ready to rethink how you think about your trauma life? Because this is just the bite-sized summary of a much longer...
Raised by Narcissists
Looking a bit long for the casual read? Yeah, this is the transcript to a whole podcast... and I'm thorough. Luckily,...