Turns out, relational rupture will always take place to some extent. But what really matters is repairing the...
Posts Tagged "family of origin"
10.51 Assessing potential partner’s “parts” through their social systems
We internalize the external systems we have to engage with, structuring our brains to be similar (or counteractively...
10.45 Worthlessness wounds, Burden parts, and self-slaying Punishers with Leanne | MFs Speak!
It’s a double dose of recordings by Leanne and commentary by this MF! Today, we’ll talk about the core wound of...
10.42 Dominic’s filial obligation to misery-spreading father parts | MFs Speak!
Today we hear from a first-time recorder, Dominic, about his lifetime of paternal abuse and filial obligation. Asking...
Transcript-Workbook for Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I
Doing a smarter thing starting this month! Here's the transcript, main points summary, doods, and reflection Qs in...
10.39 Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I
What's the basis for our initial deep connections? And where does that get lost along the way? Locking both partners...
10.27 Re-examining and rebuilding relationships influenced by parental patterns with Black, Inca, and Misa | MFs Speak!
Let's talk about relationship revelations, reconnections, and rebuilds. Especially, as they relate to direct and...
10.13 Juri and the legacy burdens | MFs Speak!
Let's hear from an alter of our pal of the Discord and MF community today! Talking about the depths of IFS legacy...
10.11 Jess and IFS in Family Recontact | MFs Speak!
So my year started out in a potentially-disasterous way, I expected complete brain-destruction... But instead, it...
SUB-C Series Looking Down Below
So in all this inner work we’ve been doing so far - starting back in July (? question mark?) with the “Refind and...
9.26 Sara and the NC decision | MFs Speak
Our pal Sara sits down to discuss the decision to go NC with her mother, the factors that had to be put into place,...
9.24 ❄ Merry Fistmas MF | Mental Preparation Points
Hear those bells ringing. Get clear on what you're facing this weekend and see it as an opportunity for doing right by...
9.19 🍗🎄 Holiday Special | Contact or No Contact Survival Points
Here it is, the most wonderful time of year! Don't abandon your Self this time around. And remember, you're never in...
9.13 SUB-C | Looking down below
Surprise early release because I love you. Alright, so if these subconscious events are so subtle and hard to...
9.12 SUB-C; The t-recovery target
What lies in between all your loudest screamings of self-hatred, fear, and defeat? Your SUB-C MF. Today, let's start...
8.28 Bitesized WRAP on Filial Obligation
Might be episode overkill, but I think we learned a lot. Let's pull all the academic and community-experiential...