Welllll… we’re at it again. Having more “drive the point home” thoughts after reflecting on what was recently said....
Posts Tagged "rebuilding relationships"
Rewiring your deepest wounds with conflict resolution
What if relational conflict was the answer to healing self-destructive thoughts and harmful lifelong narratives?
Workbook | Non-apology Apologies
Notes: Relationships can't heal unless we come together from self-undefensive places, make efforts to understand the...
14 types of non-apology apologies & how-to do them better
How we say "I'm sorry" really matters. Let's talk about ways that people do it poorly, and what those half-assed...
Workbook! Relational rupture, without repair | The real problem in our relationships
Notes: We human animals focus on "conflict avoidance" as the measure of a good relationship - but conflict is...
Relational rupture, without repair | The crux of our relational issues
Turns out, relational rupture will always take place to some extent. But what really matters is repairing the...
VIT videos videos videos! A month in review pt I
We covered A LOT this month - so here's the full rundown in doodles! Each short corresponds to an episode on the...
10.37 Practical Self Compassion with Shelby | MFs Speak!
Recognize thyn own parts before they try to control others! Let's hear more about the model of nonviolent...
10.36 VIT: Kyle and learning to receive kindness through internal work | MFs Speak!
GIVING VIT is hard enough... but how about receiving it? What happens when your parts don't know how to accept...
10.35 VIT: Shelby and Emotional Intelligence > Cognitive Controlling in Relationship | MFs Speak!
Today let's hear from Shelby, in a most excellent rundown of the importance of emotional intelligence, internal...
Lessons in relational danger: “When the perp is your savior” by Leanne
This is the transcript of the recent release of the same name! For more episodes like these, from MFs like you, join...
10.34 VIT BONUS | Uncovering layers of relationship narratives and unfulfilled needs
If we need internal VIT to form healthy external relationships, how do we get started? Most of us don't know what our...
Workbook! Disorganized attachment through IFS | YOUR Parts in Relationship Pt 2
Reminder! This is the blogged version of the workbook. It's not fancy in this form. Want the nice formatting? Yeah you...
10.32 Projection, unfulfilled needs, abuse, and self-fulfilling prophecies | YOUR parts in Relationship Pt II
What challenges come up in relationship when we're not attending to our own inner worlds? Talking about conscious and...
Workbook! Disorganized attachment through IFS | YOUR Parts in Relationship Pt 1
Reminder! This is the blogged version of the workbook. It's not fancy in this form. Want the nice formatting? Yeah you...
10.31 Disorganized attachment through IFS | YOUR Parts in Relationship Pt I
We want what we fear most: relationships. Now let's look at the problem from an IFS viewpoint. How do your parts fuck...