Welllll… we’re at it again. Having more “drive the point home” thoughts after reflecting on what was recently said....
Posts Tagged "relationships on CPTSD"
Rewiring your deepest wounds with conflict resolution
What if relational conflict was the answer to healing self-destructive thoughts and harmful lifelong narratives?
Workbook | Non-apology Apologies
Notes: Relationships can't heal unless we come together from self-undefensive places, make efforts to understand the...
14 types of non-apology apologies & how-to do them better
How we say "I'm sorry" really matters. Let's talk about ways that people do it poorly, and what those half-assed...
Workbook! Relational rupture, without repair | The real problem in our relationships
Notes: We human animals focus on "conflict avoidance" as the measure of a good relationship - but conflict is...
Relational rupture, without repair | The crux of our relational issues
Turns out, relational rupture will always take place to some extent. But what really matters is repairing the...
Workbook! Sensing “energies” in potential partners, and what it all means
Key points: (IMO) Assigning moralistic judgments ("good," "bad," "nice person") to new relational partners is not...
10.50 Sensing “energies” in potential partners, and what it all means
If the IFS approach isn’t for you, this episode might be. Let’s talk about the validity of “energy” as the biological...
10.49 Somatic understanding of “Parts” in others… before you commit to a shitlationship
We can’t predict what the future will hold or rigidly mentalize about other people’s brains, but we CAN be real with...
10.42 Dominic’s filial obligation to misery-spreading father parts | MFs Speak!
Today we hear from a first-time recorder, Dominic, about his lifetime of paternal abuse and filial obligation. Asking...
VIT videos videos videos! A month in review pt I
We covered A LOT this month - so here's the full rundown in doodles! Each short corresponds to an episode on the...
Transcript-Workbook for Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I
Doing a smarter thing starting this month! Here's the transcript, main points summary, doods, and reflection Qs in...
10.39 Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I
What's the basis for our initial deep connections? And where does that get lost along the way? Locking both partners...
10.37 Practical Self Compassion with Shelby | MFs Speak!
Recognize thyn own parts before they try to control others! Let's hear more about the model of nonviolent...
10.36 VIT: Kyle and learning to receive kindness through internal work | MFs Speak!
GIVING VIT is hard enough... but how about receiving it? What happens when your parts don't know how to accept...
10.35 VIT: Shelby and Emotional Intelligence > Cognitive Controlling in Relationship | MFs Speak!
Today let's hear from Shelby, in a most excellent rundown of the importance of emotional intelligence, internal...