So we know we need time to recover. But what else is commonly impossible to access, trapping us in continual...
Posts Tagged "boundaries"
7.23 Recovery vs. Relationships | The Recovery Resource We Lack is Time
So everything is hell in my world. How about yours? Coming to you live from a crusty hotel room, sortof sick, and...
6.14 Family Holiday Survival
HERE WE FUCKING GO. Who's ready to kickoff the season of family shitshows? Before you get your brain destroyed by the...
5.38 “Expectations” supplement. Buy the right car in the first place.
Mushbrain makes words hard. Let's just rap for another minute or 20 about relationships, standards, expectations......
5.37 Shit Relationships Part I
So we allllll wonder, "Why do I end up with people who abuse me and relationships that sink me?" Answer: How long've...
✭✭ 5.31 Full Extended Version | Fawning, Enmeshment, Relational Triggers (What is CPTSD, Alex)
As CPTSD trainees, we're programmed to give a lot of our energy to others. A lot of access to our brains, too. So what...
5 Things to Know If You Are the ‘Favorite Person’ of Someone With Borderline Personality Disorder
Just a shameless repost. This article seems important to share, because so many of us don't understand what a...
“Favorite Person” in BPD
People with BPD often experience intense attachment to a single person: they determine our mood, our identity, and our...
4.18 “Revert to Draft” | CPTSD Romantic Relationship Downfalls, Pt II
Coming back to talk about how my early life continues to shape the things I expect from romantic partners. Something...
4.17 “Revert to Draft” | Early signs of narcissism?
March 15th, 2021 Narcissists and emotional abusers... a problem we all seem to have. What if there were...
4.16 “Revert to Draft” | Why do we attract abusers?
March 2021 You might not like the answer, but it's because both parties are comfortably willing. Because we try to...
Friendship Dissolutions
So this is normally my school day, but I’m feeling the need to dig into something else this morning. The past events...
4.11 Friendship Dissolutions
Ever lose, you know, your best friends in a time of trauma responsiveness and spend years ruminating about it? Yeah,...
Why we attract (and stay with) abusers
Hey, Happy New Year! I'm starting 2021 right and doing that thing I detailed in the 2020 wrapup episode. Putting out...
3.36 Merry Fucking Christmas
It's that time. Joy to the world? MF right. Have some quick reminders about how to handle the holidays. Plus, the free...