Posts Tagged "social support"

Another VulNarc Hypothesis: asking for help and manipulation

Jan 15, 2024 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Subscriber Content

Had another thought about the connection between VulNarcdom and the traumatized phases it seems to be encapsulated in....

Another VulNarc Hypothesis: asking for help and manipulation

Jan 15, 2024 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Had another thought about the connection between VulNarcdom and the traumatized phases it seems to be encapsulated in....

Rewiring your deepest wounds with conflict resolution

Aug 19, 2023 | Patron Season 11, Subscriber Content, Transcripts, Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Trust, YOUR Parts in Relationship

Welllll… we’re at it again. Having more “drive the point home” thoughts after reflecting on what was recently said....

Rewiring your deepest wounds with conflict resolution

Aug 18, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Subscriber Content

What if relational conflict was the answer to healing self-destructive thoughts and harmful lifelong narratives?

Workbook! Relational rupture, without repair | The real problem in our relationships

Aug 5, 2023 | Blog, Patron Season 10, Private Blog, Subscriber Content, Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Trust, YOUR Parts in Relationship

Notes: We human animals focus on "conflict avoidance" as the measure of a good relationship - but conflict is...

Relational rupture, without repair | The crux of our relational issues

Aug 4, 2023 | Patron Season 10, Seasons, Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Trust, YOUR Parts in Relationship

Turns out, relational rupture will always take place to some extent. But what really matters is repairing the...

10.49 Somatic understanding of “Parts” in others… before you commit to a shitlationship

Jul 14, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

We can’t predict what the future will hold or rigidly mentalize about other people’s brains, but we CAN be real with...

10.47 Enough Fluff – Relational “Real Talk” | Setting course for July

Jul 7, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

The past months of material may have been a shock to the system – where’s all this idealistic relational information...

10.6 Incanthatus x Shelby Interview Pt III | MFs Speak!

Jan 27, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Loneliness and CPTSD, MF Speaks, MFs Speak!, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

In this final segment of the conversation, Incanthatus and Shelby dive into loneliness and relationship challenges on...

10.5 BONUS Incanthatus x Shelby Interview Pts I & II | MFs Speak!

Jan 27, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Interviews, Loneliness and CPTSD, MF Speaks, MFs Speak!, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

A TMFR first! Our community captain, Incanthatus, meets with fellow friend of the Blanket Fort, Shelby, to talk all...

8.5 “Our Changing Perspective” | Words by your MF Incanthatus!

Jun 25, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, MF Speaks, Patron Season 08, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

Love this system. You know our friend and reigning community leader, Incanthatus? Well buckle up, because they're...

7.15 CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVES

Apr 24, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective

Let's get less bleak. What can you DO about perspectives that might not be fitting your authentic experiences or...

7.14 Your GENERATIONALLY Traumatized Perspective | Research Deepens

Apr 17, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Research, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

Let's call this one a "slow burn that builds." The filial piety mosquitos are worth the full listen. Moving from...

7.13 Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective Pt. 3 | Discussion

Apr 9, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

Let's chat more about the often subtle, flippant, and hidden social influences that automatically build up to become a...

7.12 Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective Pt. 2 | Research

Apr 3, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Research, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

If we can take on traumatized perspectives through secondhand exposure and other people's words... what chance does a...

7.11 Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective Pt 1 | Intro

Mar 26, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Yer Traumatized Perspective, Your COMPLEXLY Traumatized Perspective

A tale of two children, and two different lifelong perspectives. How is this "traumatized perspective" problem a lot...