This podcast episode explores the fundamental concepts of trauma recovery, addressing the sources of trauma, the importance of self-reflection, and the process of emotional learning. It discusses how childhood experiences, generational trauma, and societal influences shape our behaviors and thought patterns. The episode emphasizes the need for self-awareness, recontextualization of past experiences, and the identification of personal needs. It also touches on the potential role of spirituality in healing and the impact of technology addiction on recovery efforts. The overall message encourages listeners to take an active role in their own healing process.
Posts Tagged "needs"
CMNTY Catchup: VulNarc Feedback and the Announcement
Back to your comments! Let's share your words on VulNarc observations around needs, manipulation, and negativity.
3.10. Chronic deprivation, self-sabotage, psychosomatic illness, and abuse dynamics
This podcast episode explores the concept of chronic self-deprivation and its roots in childhood neglect. It discusses how unrecognized personal needs can lead to self-sabotage, psychosomatic illness, and codependency. The episode offers insights into breaking these patterns by identifying and fulfilling a comprehensive range of human needs, emphasizing the importance of self-care in trauma recovery and personal growth.
7. Deprived Needs, the SUB-C, Self-sabotage and Psychosomatic Illness
So we love to deprive ourselves "for goodness" - but what happens when your subconscious has enough? Today, talking...
6. “Secondary” Needs and Emotions; Chronic Self-Entrapment
How do we mask our needs from ourselves, fruitlessly dumping energy into areas of life that won't return any chemical...
6. “Secondary” Needs and Emotions; Chronic Self-Entrapment | Workbook+Video!
Eek. Talk about self-deprivation....... no, really, let's talk about self-deprivation, masquerading as "meeting our...
3.9a NonViolent (Effective) Communication
This podcast episode explores NonViolent Communication (NVC) as a framework for effective communication in relationships and personal growth. It breaks down the four steps of NVC: separating observations from evaluations, identifying and owning feelings, recognizing underlying needs, and making requests. The episode discusses how this approach can help individuals with trauma histories improve their communication skills and understand their emotions and needs better.
VIT videos videos videos! A month in review pt I
We covered A LOT this month - so here's the full rundown in doodles! Each short corresponds to an episode on the...
10.37 Practical Self Compassion with Shelby | MFs Speak!
Recognize thyn own parts before they try to control others! Let's hear more about the model of nonviolent...
10.35 VIT: Shelby and Emotional Intelligence > Cognitive Controlling in Relationship | MFs Speak!
Today let's hear from Shelby, in a most excellent rundown of the importance of emotional intelligence, internal...
10.34 VIT BONUS | Uncovering layers of relationship narratives and unfulfilled needs
If we need internal VIT to form healthy external relationships, how do we get started? Most of us don't know what our...
Workbook! Disorganized attachment through IFS | YOUR Parts in Relationship Pt 2
Reminder! This is the blogged version of the workbook. It's not fancy in this form. Want the nice formatting? Yeah you...
10.32 Projection, unfulfilled needs, abuse, and self-fulfilling prophecies | YOUR parts in Relationship Pt II
What challenges come up in relationship when we're not attending to our own inner worlds? Talking about conscious and...
Workbook! Disorganized attachment through IFS | YOUR Parts in Relationship Pt 1
Reminder! This is the blogged version of the workbook. It's not fancy in this form. Want the nice formatting? Yeah you...
10.31 Disorganized attachment through IFS | YOUR Parts in Relationship Pt I
We want what we fear most: relationships. Now let's look at the problem from an IFS viewpoint. How do your parts fuck...
10.28 BONUS BONUS | Examining grating relationship triggers and redesigning future dynamics for need fulfillment
Ever feel like you "react wrong" to "normal things" in relationships? (Hand is raised sky high over here) Let's do a...