Posts Tagged "relational trauma"

10.43 BONUS Disclosure followthrough: behind the scenes in traumarific times

Jun 23, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

I got terrible at something in the past year or so; relational self-disclosure and expression. For protective reasons....

Transcript-Workbook for Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I

Jun 2, 2023 | Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Transcripts, Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Trust, Workbooks, YOUR Parts in Relationship

Doing a smarter thing starting this month! Here's the transcript, main points summary, doods, and reflection Qs in...

10.39 Why “authentic love” doesn’t last: Parts on Parts violence between partners PT I

Jun 2, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Patron Season 10, Podcast, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Vulnerability, Intimacy, and Trust, YOUR Parts in Relationship

What's the basis for our initial deep connections? And where does that get lost along the way? Locking both partners...

10.6 Incanthatus x Shelby Interview Pt III | MFs Speak!

Jan 27, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Loneliness and CPTSD, MF Speaks, MFs Speak!, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

In this final segment of the conversation, Incanthatus and Shelby dive into loneliness and relationship challenges on...

10.5 BONUS Incanthatus x Shelby Interview Pts I & II | MFs Speak!

Jan 27, 2023 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Interviews, Loneliness and CPTSD, MF Speaks, MFs Speak!, Patron Season 10, Seasons, Subscriber Content

A TMFR first! Our community captain, Incanthatus, meets with fellow friend of the Blanket Fort, Shelby, to talk all...

7.23 Recovery vs. Relationships | The Recovery Resource We Lack is Time

Jun 4, 2022 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 07, Seasons, Subscriber Content

So everything is hell in my world. How about yours? Coming to you live from a crusty hotel room, sortof sick, and...

6.28 Don’t Let Those Fuckers Get You Down | 2021 Reflection

Jan 13, 2022 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 06, Seasons, Subscriber Content

"I want my own life," we say. "Let's see you try," everyone retorts. Today, let's talk about THE SANITY-MAKING INSIGHT...

5.28 Guest Post | Fawning & Social Triggers

Jul 16, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Fawning, Git Changing | Advanced, MF Speaks, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Relational trauma has been a doozy lately, amiright? Yep, well wait until your new MF friend spits about her recent...

5.4 Post-pandemic Wilds (Anxiety-Depression-Obsession-Deintegration)

May 22, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content

So everything changed in the past month. In the aftermath, we're feeling a bit wild, huh? Up, down, obsessed,...

Relational “Deactivation” (AKA bitch, you so hot and cold)

Aug 24, 2020 | Blog, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, Transcripts

I've been back at trauma reading and learning lately; a side-effect of preparing to go back to school AND having open...

✭✭ 2.17 Early Days Rerelease: Deactivation, hot & cold relationships explained

Aug 20, 2020 | CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Most Helpful - 2 Stars, Patron Season 02, Public Content, Public Podcast, Seasons, Voted Most Helpful

Ever heard of Deactivation? I hadn't either. But it explains a lot about my do-or-die relationships and flighty...

The Trauma Genre; Punk rock saved my life

Aug 13, 2020 | Blog, Jess Journals, My Stories, Public Blog

Ever look back at your life and think “huh, actually I guess I did alright, considering the clusterfuck?” when you’re...

2.13 Early Days Rerelease: Trauma and physical manifestions

Aug 12, 2020 | Patron Season 02, Public Content, Public Podcast, Public Rereleases, Seasons

So... things suddenly aren't going so well with your body? Weird shit is happening, acutely and chronically? ...

✭ 2.12 Early Trauma Coping: Punk Rock Saved My Life

Aug 9, 2020 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful - 1 Star, Patron Season 02, Public Content, Public Podcast, Public Rereleases, Seasons, Voted Most Helpful

Punk is the trauma genre, drawing misfits and unwanted outsiders together to create their own community. And they...

“I’m doing well… no I’m not” C-PTSD and emotional roller coasters

Aug 7, 2020 | Blog, Early CPTSD Info, Jess Journals, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, Transcripts

One of the weirdest things for me on this CPTSD journey is realizing how my emotions change with the tides. And how...

2.8 Early Days Rerelease: Traumastates – Like remembering a fever nightmare

Jul 30, 2020 | My Stories, Patron Season 02, Public Content, Public Podcast, Public Rereleases, Seasons

Looking back on those days of trauma-responses and utter misery... sometimes feels more like trying to remember a...