Posts Tagged "perfectionism"

“Thanksgetting” what you need | Spanksgiving special

Nov 24, 2023 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, NonViolent Communication, Patron Season 11, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

Here we go! Let's rundown the ways to take care of ourselves (and maybe some need-deprived others) this holiday. ...

9.27 Katiekat and the charging rhino | MFs Speak!

Jan 1, 2023 | DID, Parts, Fragmentation, Git Educated | Intermediate, MF Speaks, MFs Speak!, Patron Season 09, Seasons, Subscriber Content, YOUR Parts in Relationship

Let's hear from a friend of the Blanket Fort Community on their recent experience with a frustrated perfectionistic...

5.6 Bonus Nug | Impressing Her, not Mysel(ves)

May 23, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Narc Recovery, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Sometimes it's the simple thoughts that change your approach to torturing yourself for someone else. Talking life on...

5.5 Bonus Nug | The Fallacy of “doing our best”

May 23, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Uh. Am I tho? Let's take another look at what that phrase really means.

Bonus Nug | 5.2 Considering Self over Fawning, Perfectionism, and Hypervigilance

May 21, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Fawning, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Laying the ground for what's to come.... a lot of extra content from a better environment and mindset. Worse audio....

4.12 Guest | Cassie; on Achieving, Education, and Employment after Childhood Trauma

Feb 27, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, MF Speaks, MF Stories, MFs Speak!, Patron Season 04, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

Last time, Cassie relayed her early experience with childhood sexual abuse and shame. Today, she's back! Talking about...

4.5 Guest: Cassie, on sexual abuse and overcoming shame

Jan 20, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, MF Speaks, MF Stories, MFs Speak!, Patron Season 04, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content

TW: Sexual abuse, incest, and substance abuse.  I've always invited TMFRs to radio in with their own accounts of...

An Experiment in Workaholism; Behavior Analysis & CPTSD

Oct 16, 2020 | Blog, Education, Jess Journals, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Patron Season 03, Public Blog, Transcripts, Work and trauma

Alright, so if you've been here long you've probably heard this story already. When was the last time I had to take a...

3.13 A Workaholic Experiment in Applied Behavior Analysis

Sep 20, 2020 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 03, Seasons, Subscriber Content

Hey, it's that time again. Taking a solid look at that life I've been creating via anxiety and workaholic tendencies…....

Mental Health In The Workplace: ACEs Role

Aug 29, 2020 | Blog, Education, Patron Season 03, Public Blog, Tools and Resources, Transcripts, Work and trauma

Anyone else have trouble with work stress and triggering work environments (physical and social)? Holler. It's been...

✭✭ 3.2 Early Days Rerelease: ACEs and Work Environments

Aug 26, 2020 | Most Helpful - 2 Stars, Patron Season 03, Public Content, Public Podcast, Public Rereleases, Seasons, Voted Most Helpful, Work and trauma

Struggle with work environments triggering your trauma and disrupting your life? Wonder why coworkers drive you over...

2.10 Caring for everyone… but you

Aug 2, 2020 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 02, Seasons, Subscriber Content

I'm great at taking care of everyone… but myself. Always dissociated. Always slave-driving. Always worried about...

1.20 “Revert to Draft” | Workaholics (Hypervigilance) Anon

Jul 10, 2020 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 01, Seasons, Subscriber Content

I’m one rigid bitch. Maybe not in my beliefs or judgements of others... but shit, I can’t handle my own self. My days?...

✭ 1.5 “Revert to Draft” | Blog | Intro to stress, inflammation, and autoimmune disease. My origin story: Part 3.

May 24, 2020 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful - 1 Star, Origins of a Motherfucker, Patron Season 01, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful

This is the story of an overachiever lifestyle and decades of unmanaged childhood trauma resulting in autoimmune...

Stress, Inflammation, and Autoimmune Disease | Part 3 of my Intro to C-PTSD

Jul 23, 2019 | Blog, Intro to my C-PTSD, LIVING with Complex Trauma, My Stories, Psychosomatic illness, Public Blog, RECOVERY, Series, Transcripts

If you'd rather listen to this article than read it - HEY there's a podcast for that. Listen here! Or, take a gander...