by Jess | Jan 30, 2024 | Public Blog, Public Content, Public Season 4
Hey Fuckers, it has been a beat. I was going to say “sorry,” but aren’t we all trying to train ourselves out of that bad habit? Rather than claiming our lives, our time, our health, our autonomy, we, instead, apologize for having the burden of existing. Pretty...
by Jess | Jan 30, 2024 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Filial Obligation and Entrapment, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content
We KNOW what comes from Filial Obligation with abusive people… anxiety, depression, sense of incapacity and entrapment, hopelessness, suicidality… and yet, we’re still torn. So, what’s going on? . Let’s explore 5 Western philosophies on...
by Jess | Jan 30, 2024 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Subscriber Content
A big Q from John; Answered. And what the hell happened with all these “new” (old) Narc episodes dropping?
by Jess | Jan 20, 2024 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Subscriber Content
Back to your comments! Let’s share your words on VulNarc observations around needs, manipulation, and negativity.
by Jess | Jan 20, 2024 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Subscriber Content
The crossover between VulNarcs and FilOb is considerable. Hell, parental duty is how many of us get acquainted with the term. Cue the years of manipulation. So, today, let’s open a three part discussion on Filial Obligation as a moral duty. First, talking about...
by Jess | Jan 15, 2024 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Subscriber Content
Had another thought about the connection between VulNarcdom and the traumatized phases it seems to be encapsulated in. Then, had the thought, “but I don’t have a way to record right now… so this is worthless…” … But, says who? Who can guarantee that no one will...
by Jess | Jan 15, 2024 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Subscriber Content
Had another thought about the connection between VulNarcdom and the traumatized phases it seems to be encapsulated in. Then, had the thought, “but I don’t have a way to record right now… so this is worthless…” … But, says who? Who can guarantee that no one will...
by Jess | Jan 13, 2024 | Git Changing | Advanced, Narc Recovery, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Transcripts
Unexpected delivery, knocking at your door. Hey Fuckers. FIrst of all, it’s Friday morning after the ‘nouncement, and I see there are a buncho comments coming in about those last two posts. Thank you, I appreciate you, and I have things to say. But not...
by Jess | Jan 13, 2024 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Subscriber Content
Not to skim over your kindly comments, but I’ll sob… Let’s do a bitesized summary/expansion of our VulNarc talk and add some community wisdom to the mix. Talkin’ filial obligation, defensiveness, and moderating anxiety when waiting for...
by Jess | Jan 12, 2024 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Time Distortions
We need time, space, and energy for recovery. But what happens if we mal-use those resources? Today, we’re diving into a resaerch paper on the connections between VulNarcs and Past Negative Time Orientation, including how angry rumination and withdrawal...
by Jess | Jan 12, 2024 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 12, Seasons, Subscriber Content
For those who don’t like surprises, here’s what’s next for TMFRs.
by Jess | Jan 12, 2024 | Git Changing | Advanced, Narc Recovery, Patron Season 12, RECOVERY, Research, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content, Time Distortions, Transcripts
So, I hope you listened to that little introduction to 2024 that I just released. As I told you, I’m…. quitting this show. This is either the FINAL season or, finally, the season in which I get my groove back and can’t stop dancing to the music. I’m not sure which....
