by tmfrscom | Jun 30, 2021 | Ask Me Anything, Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 05, Podcast, Seasons, Subscriber Content
It’s the June AMA! Finally, AIFR? Whatta month. Today, answering questions about going Limited- and No- Contact with Narcissists, how to handle massive life changes that comes with massive shutdowns, and how some of our personality “parts” might...
by tmfrscom | Jun 26, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content
Oh man, say what you will about Narcissist Parents on Reddit, but this thread has it ALL. Everything we’ve been talking about this spring, from recognition of narc parents and personal narc habits, their common traits, and neural reprogramming through the power...
by tmfrscom | Jun 24, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Brain Patterning, Family Brain Hijinx, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Workbooks
Hey, who wants a new benefit? Well you’re FUCKING GETTING ONE, like it or not. Education is one thing, but seeing how all of this research ACTUALLY fits into your life is brain changing, clarifying, and self-hate relieving. Welcome to the newest shit I’m...
by tmfrscom | Jun 24, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Brain Patterning, Family Brain Hijinx, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful – 4 Stars, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
Well, if the past few episodes haven’t been damning enough… today we’re talking about the generational trauma indoctrination, abusee role-acceptance, and mental abuse tactics that come pre-programmed in our connection-hungry little brains. Not to...
by tmfrscom | Jun 23, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Family Brain Hijinx, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful – 5 Stars, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
Because the 24th is a lucky day… It’s an early drop! hint hint, if you like annual discounts. Check the tiers 6/24. (cheapo. jk me too.) cheers Fuckers “What is this ‘connection’ thing that pulls me in and maintains horrible...
by tmfrscom | Jun 23, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Family Brain Hijinx, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful – 5 Stars, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
How do the four basic parenting types – plus the Narc parenting variant known as “affectionless control” – play out? How do they relate to generational trauma? Talking about the mental terror that overtakes baby brains from dissociation...
by Jess | Jun 20, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content
Hey, want to hear me realizing the “lost cause” of my toxic relationship? You know, the one that changed my life and started a MF trauma community. Also, the one that’s creepily like living with my mother? Mhmm… it’s a lot of our recent talks,...
by tmfrscom | Jun 19, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content
New Patreons?! Damn! Been meaning to say “hey” without seeming too thirsty… you know? Buttfuckit this is overwhelming. Introductions aside, I just wanted to give a quick unsolicited recommendation (in case you didn’t get enough of those about...
by tmfrscom | Jun 19, 2021 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Polls, Subscriber Content
Grandiose or Vulnerable – all varieties count! Just curious… how many of us? Answer anytime. Tomorrow or ten years from now, tell us what you’ve seen. Comment if ya want. Tell us how many narcs fruited your family tree… and...
by tmfrscom | Jun 19, 2021 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content
Yoooo…. The Merch Giveaways went OUT! I forgot to holler. And with how shitty our mail service got… I mean… I’ve still probably time left to tell you. Anyways, I flooded the fucking post office box and I’m really hoping...
by tmfrscom | Jun 18, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content
You know what sucks? Our families. But, specifically, the ways that their brains have impacted ours – all the way down to the ways we try (and fail) to have stable relationships. Today, taking a venting approach to examining the fucked up trauma brain procedures...
by tmfrscom | Jun 18, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content
It’s a spicy one. Hey, been a while since we really rapped. Fuckit, I’ve finally got words for some of these springtime parenting experiences… there’s my Narc educational reflections, first of all. Then, the past two months of rollercoaster...
by tmfrscom | Jun 16, 2021 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content
This. You know what doesn’t help with the not-dissociating during intimacy? When we’re being treated like a human seen on a computer, not a human. I mean, read this reddit thread – I’m crying with laughter. But it’s this sort...
by tmfrscom | Jun 15, 2021 | DID, Parts, Fragmentation, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful - 3 Stars, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
For our protection, Listener Experiences are part of the Patreon or Spotify Subscription Services. Available at patreon.com/traumatizedmotherfuckers, Spotify, or through the show bio for $5/mo. Enough of my mouth-running. Other folks know the practical effects of this...
by tmfrscom | Jun 12, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Changing | Advanced, Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content
Just a quick bit that I thought some of you might appreciate… wanna talk about some dominant parts? You might meet yours more easily if you get even mildly acquainted with the stars. Pisces | Aquarius | Leo
by tmfrscom | Jun 12, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Changing | Advanced, Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content
Just a bonus post about traum-astrology. Did you know there’s a trauma healer… not planet… not star… more like an asteroid. So, you know, it travels unpredictably through the sky and tends to crash into things. Sound like CPTSD already? Well...
by Jess | Jun 9, 2021 | Bite Sized Patreon Posts, Blog, DID, Parts, Fragmentation, Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, RECOVERY, Transcripts
Want to listen to this? Check the Podcast! Thirsty for more details on your brain mechanisms? I’ve gottem. Check patreon.com/traumatizedmotherfuckers to get the full, hour long version of the article, podcasted for your ease of consumption. And get ALL the full...
by tmfrscom | Jun 9, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, DID, Parts, Fragmentation, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful – 5 Stars, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
So we’ve covered the signs. We’ve covered the scientific “how.” Now… what the fuck to do about our trauma-programmed personalities? What else do we need to understand about our dissociative neural networks, what common trauma-life...
by tmfrscom | Jun 5, 2021 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content
I know, I’ve talked about Duncan Trussell before. Love his show. But he’s weird. That being said, you would benefit from hearing some of the episodes. And the one I’m listening to right now is VERY much about the evolutionary and psychological...
by tmfrscom | Jun 5, 2021 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content
Well that raises the question my parts are all asking… Da Fuck? Is this a glitch in the simulation, or finally my psychotic break? Because, you guys (non-gendered), can I take a self-absorbed dive for just one second, and remind all of us...
by Jess | Jun 4, 2021 | Ask Me Anything, Git Changing | Advanced, Patron Season 05, Podcast, Seasons, Subscriber Content
It’s a long story, starting with ABA, moving through parts theory, and ending at “holy fuck, my whole life has been shaped by covert abuse.” So how’s your springtime been?
by Jess | Jun 2, 2021 | Bite Sized Patreon Posts, Blog, DID, Parts, Fragmentation, Education, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Public Blog, RECOVERY, Transcripts
Ready to rethink how you think about your trauma life? Because this is just the bite-sized summary of a much longer issue. Check the Podcast to listen to this mini-serving. Then check patreon.com/traumatizedmotherfuckers to get the hour-long version of the FULL...
by tmfrscom | Jun 2, 2021 | Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content
We talked about spotting signs of dissociative identity on the show today. I’ll be talking about my first personality part discovery on Friday. Hey, Fucker, what’ve you got to say about yours? Can’t wait to meet “you...
by Jess | Jun 2, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Bite Sized Patreon Posts, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content
This is the summary version of the full-length episode! So we’ve talked endlessly about HOW neural networks (fragmented personalities) develop through trauma on a biological basis. Today, we’re talking about how that looks from the outside, per Healing the...
by tmfrscom | Jun 2, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, DID, Parts, Fragmentation, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful – 5 Stars, Patron Season 05, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
So we’ve talked endlessly about HOW neural networks (fragmented personalities) develop through trauma on a biological basis. Today, we’re talking about how that looks from the outside, per Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors by trauma...
by tmfrscom | Jun 2, 2021 | DID, Parts, Fragmentation, Git Educated | Intermediate, Subscriber Content
It’s the first MF Book Club Meeting! We’ve been talking about it, inside and out. I recommend you give this thing a listen (audiobooks are a MF’s best friend) on your own time. ...
