by Jess | Apr 30, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Bite Sized Patreon Posts, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 04, Seasons, Subscriber Content
Quick takes from the full episode, ready to consume in one sitting. Have you been convinced that everything about you was “wrong?” Does someone in your life make you feel… “off,” in a way that’s anxious, fearful, defeated, and...
by Jess | Apr 29, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful – 4 Stars, Patron Season 04, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
Have you been convinced that everything about you was “wrong?” Does someone in your life make you feel “off,” in a way that’s anxious, fearful, defeated, and self-doubting? Ever see that the person “helping” actually seemed to...
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by Jess | Apr 25, 2021 | Bite Sized Patreon Posts, Blog, Git Changing | Advanced, Jess Journals, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Subscriber Content, Transcripts
Ready to rethink how you think about your trauma life? Because this is just the bite-sized summary of a much longer issue. Check the Podcast to listen to this mini-serving. Then check patreon.com/traumatizedmotherfuckers to get the hour-long version of the FULL...
by Jess | Apr 25, 2021 | Blog, CPTSD Relationship Downfalls, Git Changing | Advanced, Jess Journals, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Private Blog, Transcripts
Looking a bit long for the casual read? Yeah, this is the transcript to a whole podcast… and I’m thorough. Luckily, this full episode is available wherever you podcast! Be sure to check it out, and take a dive into the 100 free trauma recovery episodes...
by Jess | Apr 23, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Bite Sized Patreon Posts, Git Educated | Intermediate, Patron Season 04, Seasons, Subscriber Content
Back with a quick, consumable rundown of the full episode on Abuse Stigma. For the complete recording… uh… click again. You’ve probably realized, abuse is a dirty topic not to happily discussed in the public sphere. Victims are blamed. Cases are dismissed....
by Jess | Apr 22, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful - 2 Stars, Patron Season 04, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
You’ve probably realized, abuse is a dirty topic not to happily discussed in the public sphere. Victims are blamed. Cases are dismissed. And perpetrators are enabled. But what’s the point of our ignorance towards domestic abuse? Is there a reason why we...
by Jess | Apr 19, 2021 | Bonus Episodes, Git Changing | Advanced, MF Speaks, MF Stories, MFs Speak!, Patron Season 04, Seasons, Series, Subscriber Content
Taking advantage of an amazing MF who shared her story with me last week. Today, Monica proves her Motherfuckerdom by sharing her tales of growing up with two unhealthy parents, what she’s learned since separating herself, and moving forward in her (is this...
by Jess | Apr 13, 2021 | Blog, Jess Journals, LIVING with Complex Trauma, Narc Recovery, Public Blog, Public Content, RECOVERY, Seasons, Transcripts
Looking a bit long for the casual read? Yeah, this is the transcript to a whole podcast… and I’m thorough. Luckily, this full episode is available wherever you podcast! Be sure to check it out, and take a dive into the 100 free trauma recovery episodes...
by Jess | Apr 12, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful - 1 Star, Patron Season 04, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
So that last episode was an unexpected doozy, huh? (Still mortified.) Well, I’m back in Illinois and ready to clear the air with some actual LESSONS from this mess. In the past two weeks, here’s where I’ve been, what I’ve realized, and what my...
by Jess | Apr 10, 2021 | Blog, Jess Journals, Public Blog, Tools and Resources
You know, I actually talk up punk on the show for a reason besides my own lifelong interest. I think it can be a tool. Hear me out. It’s not a coincidence that so many punks are CPTSD roadies. Punk is full of connective lyrics about hard times. It features a mix...
by Jess | Apr 10, 2021 | Blog, Education, Public Blog, RECOVERY, Tools and Resources
Today I’m talking about two things, inspired by the AMAs from March. You’ll notice that they’re seemingly separate issues… but, actually, they’re built on the same neurological problem… with a similar new-connection-forming remedy....
by Jess | Apr 9, 2021 | Blog, Education, Member Posts, MF Speaks, Public Blog
People with BPD often experience intense attachment to a single person: they determine our mood, our identity, and our self-worth. They are called our Favourite Person. I remember my first favorite person. She played the part of Dorothy, in a local Little Theatre...
by Jess | Apr 5, 2021 | Audio Podcasts | Subscribers, Git Educated | Intermediate, Most Helpful - 1 Star, Patron Season 04, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
TRIGGER WARNING: emotional abuse, suicidal ideation, and self-harm. Childhood abuse can come with a lot of overt violence and aggression… or it might be more subtle than that. Years after tackling the obvious trauma, it might be a bit crisis inducing to realize...
by Jess | Apr 2, 2021 | Ask Me Anything, Git Changing | Advanced, Most Helpful - 2 Stars, Patron Season 04, Seasons, Subscriber Content, Voted Most Helpful
It’s the Ask Me Anything results from March – talking about the specifics of changing your trauma-born core beliefs and behaviors with a neuroscience background approach. Understand what you’re trying to accomplish, reach your goal more efficiently....
