


4.4. Pathological Structuring of Narcissists (Or, No Integrity without Integration)
This podcast episode explores the disorganized personality structuring of narcissists, explaining how their lack of integration affects their behavior and relationships. It discusses different levels of personality organization and how narcissists’ fragmented psyches lead to inconsistent and often manipulative actions. The episode draws parallels between narcissistic behaviors and childlike reactions, offering insights into why narcissists may seem unpredictable or intentionally deceptive. It also touches on the importance of self-integration in developing personal integrity and maintaining healthy relationships.

Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt II | Video+Transcript
Transcript Hi Fuckers! We’re back to talk about the structural disorganization of narcissists, and, therefore, the reasons why they haven’t a trustworthy bone in their bodies over any duration of time. It’s part two! If you’re starting here… I mean, do you, but...
“So fucking what?” Narc-Integrity Supplement (pt III)
The end of intellectualizing. Time to apply the knowledge we just gathered for our own narc dealings.
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt II
Let’s compare narcissism to the levels of personality functioning that range from “mature” to “psychopathological,” with all the neuroticism and borderline functioning in between. References: Caligor E: Narcissism in the Psychodynamic...
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt I
There is NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION, and these fuckers use relationships as stand-ins for doing the work.
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt I | Video+Transcript
Transcript Hey Fuckers! Anyone else had an intense couple of weeks? Between the three jobs I’m working, the family system rearranging out of my favor again, and the eclipse which has kept me from sleeping for the past four nights straight… It’s been a trying...
BONUS Supplement: 3 Theories of self Structure Developed in Narcissistic Upbringings | Transcript
References: Di Pierro R, Fanti E. Self-Concept in Narcissism: Profile Comparisons of Narcissistic Manifestations on Facets of the Self. Clin Neuropsychiatry. 2021 Aug;18(4):211-222. doi: 10.36131/cnfioritieditore20210404. PMID: 34909036; PMCID: PMC8650183....
BONUS Supplement: 3 Theories of self Structure Developed in Narcissistic Upbringings | Transcript
Yooooo Fuckers! As long as we’re talking about self and healing these days, I wanted to share with you – the tier that likes to think as deeply as possible about this content for ya damn self – some of the material that I chopped out of the research...
“Feel good about yourself.” For Real. Building self Esteem x Parts Work | Transcript
Hey, I just wanted to say…. Feel good about yourself and don’t let anyone or anyTHING change that, ever. It’s the answer to all your problems. … … … And YOU just want to say, “Fuck you, dumb bitch, you think I haven’t heard that before? If I could will myself to feel...
self vs. Self | Video+Transcript
Transcript: I thought it would be a good idea to do a little refresher on some concepts that we discuss often, but never can be spoken to enough. Especially as we’re discussing the concept of self, as a component of healing and resiliency. AND, as part of a much...