The Dangers of Intellectualization and Rationalization pt 2 | Video+Transcript
We have returned, for personality disorder x defense mechanisms Pt II. The major finding of our last show was… self-defense mechanisms work in a way that we didn’t quite have our finger on before. Previously, my brain assumed that self-defense was about defending...
The Dangers of Intellectualization and Rationalization pt 2
The discussion continues! What’s the REAL purpose of these common self-defense tactics? Advanced fuckers can check out the video version, and see the transcript, here!
The Dangers of Intellectualization and Rationalization pt I | Video+Transcript
Transcript: This is a section that got left out of our last big research episode on Disintegrated, integrity-lacking, narcs. If you’ve been sitting around, thinking “do I have a fucked up personality organization akin to narcissism or worse?” here are some...
The Dangers of Intellectualization and Rationalization pt I
References: Caligor E: Narcissism in the Psychodynamic Diagnostic Manual. In Ogrodniczuk, J: Treating Pathological Narcissism. Washington DC, APA Book, 2013, pp. 63-79....
REPOST! Apply It | Repersonalization Pt II – A New Life for Your SELF | Video+Transcript
May I divert your attention to a video version of this post from SUV living after fleeing my family in 2021. ENJOY THE GROWTH and Cheers Fuckers Transcript: Hey there motherfuckers, it’s Jess. And isn’t this end of the pandemic something? Yeah, I can tell...
REPOST! **Re-ssociate. Re-find Your “Self” and Reclaim Your Life. Pt I | Video+Transcript
I thought this was a good time to revisit some powerful and highly ranked episodes from the past before we transition into talking about defense mechanisms. Let’s go back and recall the lessons learned during depersonalization recovery as we continue talking...
YOUR RESILIENCY | Video+Bonus Qs to give your self some motherfucking credit (pt 7)
Your self needs to see how it’s been strong and what wiles it has to this day, to offset your self-estimations that may inaccurately center around weakness and disempowerment, doubt and exhaustion.
Your self Authority, Authenticity, Integrity Pts 1-6 | Transcript+Video
Contents Part 1 – Introduction Part 2 – Self-sufficiency and Credit Part 3 – Self Authority Part 4 – Empowerment & Entitlement Part 5 – You are Human & Self Forgiveness Part 6 – Intrinsic Motivated Life Part 1- Introduction...
4.4. Pathological Structuring of Narcissists (Or, No Integrity without Integration)
This podcast episode explores the disorganized personality structuring of narcissists, explaining how their lack of integration affects their behavior and relationships. It discusses different levels of personality organization and how narcissists’ fragmented psyches lead to inconsistent and often manipulative actions. The episode draws parallels between narcissistic behaviors and childlike reactions, offering insights into why narcissists may seem unpredictable or intentionally deceptive. It also touches on the importance of self-integration in developing personal integrity and maintaining healthy relationships.
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt II | Video+Transcript
Transcript Hi Fuckers! We’re back to talk about the structural disorganization of narcissists, and, therefore, the reasons why they haven’t a trustworthy bone in their bodies over any duration of time. It’s part two! If you’re starting here… I mean, do you, but...
“So fucking what?” Narc-Integrity Supplement (pt III)
The end of intellectualizing. Time to apply the knowledge we just gathered for our own narc dealings.
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt II
Let’s compare narcissism to the levels of personality functioning that range from “mature” to “psychopathological,” with all the neuroticism and borderline functioning in between. References: Caligor E: Narcissism in the Psychodynamic...
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt I
There is NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION, and these fuckers use relationships as stand-ins for doing the work.
Narcs: NO INTEGRITY WITHOUT INTEGRATION pt I | Video+Transcript
Transcript Hey Fuckers! Anyone else had an intense couple of weeks? Between the three jobs I’m working, the family system rearranging out of my favor again, and the eclipse which has kept me from sleeping for the past four nights straight… It’s been a trying...
BONUS Supplement: 3 Theories of self Structure Developed in Narcissistic Upbringings | Transcript
References: Di Pierro R, Fanti E. Self-Concept in Narcissism: Profile Comparisons of Narcissistic Manifestations on Facets of the Self. Clin Neuropsychiatry. 2021 Aug;18(4):211-222. doi: 10.36131/cnfioritieditore20210404. PMID: 34909036; PMCID: PMC8650183....
BONUS Supplement: 3 Theories of self Structure Developed in Narcissistic Upbringings | Transcript
Yooooo Fuckers! As long as we’re talking about self and healing these days, I wanted to share with you – the tier that likes to think as deeply as possible about this content for ya damn self – some of the material that I chopped out of the research...
“Feel good about yourself.” For Real. Building self Esteem x Parts Work | Transcript
Hey, I just wanted to say…. Feel good about yourself and don’t let anyone or anyTHING change that, ever. It’s the answer to all your problems. … … … And YOU just want to say, “Fuck you, dumb bitch, you think I haven’t heard that before? If I could will myself to feel...
self vs. Self | Video+Transcript
Transcript: I thought it would be a good idea to do a little refresher on some concepts that we discuss often, but never can be spoken to enough. Especially as we’re discussing the concept of self, as a component of healing and resiliency. AND, as part of a much...
self vs. Self
In our last paper we heard that “self” isn’t well defined in psychology… then layer in the innate healing capability of the “Self” and we’re all fucked. Let’s discuss “the self” as well as its unearthly...
Comment-Inspired Followup! “Adaptive Narcissism” doesn’t exist & visualizing the spectrum of narcpathology
“Dr. Ramani says there’s no such thing as Healthy Narcissism.” EXACTLY FUCKER! Let’s clear up what’s been throwing some of us off. And let’s visualize this narc discussion as the polarized spectrum it really is, while we’re at...
4.3. Healing with “Adaptive Narcissism” and Uniqueness | Leveraging Stigma for Permissive self-Healing
This podcast episode explores the concept of “adaptive narcissism” and its potential benefits for trauma recovery and psychological resilience. It challenges common perceptions of narcissism, discussing how certain traits associated with grandiose narcissism, such as self-sufficiency and vanity, can be protective against PTSD symptoms. The episode emphasizes the importance of developing a healthy sense of uniqueness and authenticity while avoiding harmful aspects of narcissism like entitlement and exploitativeness.
Comment-Inspired Followup! “Adaptive Narcissism” doesn’t exist & visualizing the spectrum of narcpathology | Transcript
So oftentimes in this weird role I find myself in, I also find myself wondering “are my words working?” With such an internal-work-based-position, it can be really hard to know if I’m explaining how things from the outside are connecting with these – here comes...
Transcript+Video | Your Ailing ‘self’ and How to Fix It… with GranAdaptiveNarcissism
Friends, hello! Announcements in case you’ve missed some recordings or are generally new: Thanks for being here, a part of the recovery community. If you don’t know, I’m some working class motherfucker with a boatload of student loans ala trying to improve my life and...
Your Ailing self and How to Fix It… with GranAdaptiveNarcissism
What’s missing in our lives that keeps us from being our most resilient and authentic self? Time to rethink our self-editing lessons of the past. References: Di Pierro R, Fanti E. Self-Concept in Narcissism: Profile Comparisons of Narcissistic Manifestations on...
STIGMA vs. Adaptive Narcissism (pt III)
Audio version is here Transcript: Alright fuckers, lets rap. Am I putting out too much content? Perhaps. Truthbetold my brain is running several different programs right now that are starting to seem verrrrry difficult to manage all of them and I WILL be slowing down...
STIGMA vs. Adaptive Narcissism (pt III)
Why has this article been so revitalizing? Well, the research results are challenging a lifetime of stigma. Let’s talk about family, culture, and witch hunts while redefining some misused words that could boost our resiliency. THEN, some reflection questions for...
Transcript+Video | Discussion: Adaptive Narcissism vs. PTS Resilience
Hey Fuckers! Welcome. I’m back in the saddle – returned to my real microphone after an unexpectedly prolonged travel stint where my brain went “oh, shit, you know in the absence of the continual strain, it’s clear that our daily surroundings were really crushing...
Discussion: Adaptive Narcissism vs. PTS Resilience
Entitlement, exploitativeness, vanity, and resiliency… We learned a lot in our last paper rundown. Let’s circle back to pull out and expand upon the key points with additional research.
Adaptive Narc and Ambivalent Feels Community Catchup
Let’s hit the points that have been lingering since our double release last week and dive into community comments.
🚀 MICROMMUNITIES ARE HERE!!! 🚀
Advanced Fuckers! The time has come – I need to release some of what I’ve been working on. ✨✨ Introducing the first round of Private Micro-communities (micrommunities) on the new platform! ✨✨ Here’s the group rationale: We’re all here for...
4.2. Filial Obligation Narratives, Ambivalence, Perception, and Guilt
This podcast episode explores the complex topic of filial obligation, discussing various philosophical perspectives on children’s duties towards their parents. It examines the relationship between ambivalence, guilt, and caregiver burden in parent-child dynamics. The episode also considers cultural differences in approaching filial piety, including Confucian views on self-realization through familial duty. It addresses the factors that influence the perception and outcomes of filial caregiving, offering listeners insights to navigate these challenging family decisions.
Adaptive Narcissism and PTSD Resiliency pt I
Today, I bring you a paper that we can all thank our fellow Motherfucker for. Alex, thank you for sending this my way. I don’t even want to give a big introduction. I just want to jump into a paper that has – I shit you not – helped me understand...
Parent-Child Ambivalence, Guilt, and Care Perception | Extra Research
Episode linkVideo link I know I keep doing this thing where I’m like “OH! One more point!” But. I have about three more points. First: I would be remiss not to revisit the Filial Piety debate We touched, just briefly, at the end of episode four on the fact that...
FINALE: Six Predictive Pillars of Filial Outcomes | Return to FilOb pt 4
So in all this Filial talk, the real question that I keep bringing up may be…. Why bother discussing it? We can run ourselves mentally and emotionally ragged trying to weigh the pros and cons… and that’s before the spiritual and physical tolls hit us, probably, in...
Video version? Parent-Child Ambivalence, Guilt, and Care Perception | Extra Research
Why would you want to watch my face read? IDK, but I’ve been told I *should* do this. So I finally gave it a shot. NOTE: extremely awkward. Lemme know!
Parent-Child Ambivalence, Guilt, and Care Perception | Extra Research
Count this as an extra dive into 3 research papers. What’s the connection between perception, caregiving burden, parent-child ambivalence, and guilt? . Next up: A Narc episode that I couldn’t download out of my recording software at time of this...
Adaptive Narcissism and PTSD Resiliency pt I
How is narcissism potentially “necessary for psychological adjustment to adversity”? Your usual self-analyses might implode with this episode. Thank you to Alex for sending in this paper! References: Montoro, C. I., de la Coba, P., Moreno-Padilla, M.,...
FINALE: Six Predictive Pillars of Filial Outcomes | Return to FilOb pt 4
Let’s bring this back down to earth. Philosophies meet t-real life and 2 additional research studies, as we draw our final conclusions on Filial Morality.
“What do I owe this decrepit asshole?” by Dominic | FilOb Community Feedback
After all these academic approaches to the debate of Filial Obligation, let’s hear from a RL MF on his philosophy and boundaries. Check out the first part of Dominic’s story here. Thank you again, Dominic and Kyle, for your...
One Scrambling View: “It’s about you” | Return to FilOb pt III
Just one major point today as a catalyst to throwing your own thoughts in a perspectual blender. What if Filial Obligation isn’t about your parents?
4.1. Making of a Vulnerable Narcissist
This podcast episode explores the concept of vulnerable narcissism and its relationship to trauma recovery. It discusses how recovery resources like time, space, and energy can be misused, potentially leading to the development of narcissistic traits. The episode examines the characteristics of vulnerable narcissists, including their tendency towards negative time orientation and manipulative behaviors, and how these traits may stem from unresolved trauma.
Yer Subconscious Narratives on Filial Obligation | FilOb Revisited pt II
We KNOW what comes from Filial Obligation with abusive people… anxiety, depression, sense of incapacity and entrapment, hopelessness, suicidality… and yet, we’re still torn. So, what’s going on? . Let’s explore 5 Western philosophies on...
CMNTY: Escaping the Narc Cycle & All Deez Archived Releases
A big Q from John; Answered. And what the hell happened with all these “new” (old) Narc episodes dropping?
CMNTY Catchup: VulNarc Feedback and the Announcement
Back to your comments! Let’s share your words on VulNarc observations around needs, manipulation, and negativity.
Filial Obligation Revisited pt 1: Upsetting Eastern Perspectives
The crossover between VulNarcs and FilOb is considerable. Hell, parental duty is how many of us get acquainted with the term. Cue the years of manipulation. So, today, let’s open a three part discussion on Filial Obligation as a moral duty. First, talking about...
Another VulNarc Hypothesis: asking for help and manipulation
Had another thought about the connection between VulNarcdom and the traumatized phases it seems to be encapsulated in. Then, had the thought, “but I don’t have a way to record right now… so this is worthless…” … But, says who? Who can guarantee that no one will...
Another VulNarc Hypothesis: asking for help and manipulation
Had another thought about the connection between VulNarcdom and the traumatized phases it seems to be encapsulated in. Then, had the thought, “but I don’t have a way to record right now… so this is worthless…” … But, says who? Who can guarantee that no one will...Supplemental Summary of VulNarcs v. Recovery & Some Community Comments
Unexpected delivery, knocking at your door. Hey Fuckers. FIrst of all, it’s Friday morning after the ‘nouncement, and I see there are a buncho comments coming in about those last two posts. Thank you, I appreciate you, and I have things to say. But not...